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BORGQUEEN4

  • BORGQUEEN4 Identifies As:
  • Gender: Female
  • Orientation:Friendship Only
  • STATS Height: 5'05"
  • Weight: 170 lbs
  • Age: 55 years old.
  • LOCATION A Country Place, NJ, USA
  • Last time online Within 2 weeks
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My Description

Serenity

Remembering the past, thinking about the future I've wanted to write an intro specifically for the transpassion site. Because trans people, at least the ones I knew, were for more accepting and far less troubled by intersex people than any others. Aye, I'm intersex. It's my belief I'd find a friend who would understand how I both fit and don't fit into the male/female worlds. Most people, even in the gay community, have assumed I fit somewhere in the middle. This is true to some extent, but it's more than that, the trans people I knew, understood that. Intros to these friendship/romance websites are meant to be happy, positive and inviting. I think they should be honest. Even if it isn't entirely happy and positive. Though I believe this is positive because it's honest and ends with hope. Read on, and see for yourself... It's been years since I've left the gay community for its open rejection, ridicule, abuse and exploitation of trans people and their complete ignorance of the intersex. I was once a VP of one of the oldest GLB organizations in my state. I even successfully petitioned for the inclusion of I for intersex about 12,13 years ago. Not that it helped. Trans and Intersex were still seen as outsiders for various reasons. Honestly I don't see much change. During a prolonged absence, I returned to find a trans member had been harassed until she left the women's rap group. The board did nothing, despite complaints by her and many of the men in the organization (cheers to the gay boys). Some weeks later I found out she committed suicide. I watched as people (wanker and gobs---es really) treated it like an entertaining bit of trivia. I (and many of the gay boys) quietly left and never returned. I quit the other groups I was part of as well. I never looked back. That was 13 years ago, I've been alone ever since, too angry to be around anyone. Despite loneliness. It's said that what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger, that time heals all wounds. The sayings forgets to mentions the scars that remain. There to remind us not to make the same mistakes twice. So here I am, alone and wishing I had a friend. I miss friendship more than anything else. I don't want a lover, I don't want sex. I want something to hang out with, to watch old movies with. Talk rubbish with, go bowling, have a girls and/or boys night out. I want a friend that understand what I mean when I say I want someone I can be little with. To remember a moment in time, when all was good and safe, and I had a future filled with happiness and hope. When I say I want someone I can be little with, people just look at me in confusion or tell me I need to grow up or see a counselor. These friendship/romance websites present the illusion friendships and romance can be found there. All I've gotten were offers for t-------es or curiosity sex. The list of people I've blocked is HUGE! Despite all the above. I have to believe there's someone out there. So... if you're into sci fi (a big ol' nerd), comedy, horror, mysteries, obscure and forgotten classic movies (Nancy Drew Reporter 1939 for example). Old spooky houses, pumpkins, Halloween and yard sales. If you enjoy extreme weather, sitting by a window watching thunderstorms. Taking the proverbial long walks, sitting silently on a beach, listening to, and watching the waves roll in and out. If you like technology, and antiques. If you have flights of fem and moments of butch. If you love gardening, animals, children and 80s music. If you're NOT willing to give up on life or yourself. If you have a strong moral standard, value and honour real friendships. If you are smoke, drink and drug free (especially drug free). If you live in NJ or close enough... send me an email and be patient. I'm rusty and cautious, and I take time to do things. Especially when getting to know someone. With eternal hope, The Solitary Traveler.

About Me  (My Interests / Hobbies / Groups)


Hobbies & Interests
gardening, internet, reading, killing zombies, weather, computers, movies, writing, fleamarkets, music
Body Type
athletic, pleasantly plump
Movies
indie, bollywood, romance, comedy, romantic comedy, drama, sci-fi, horror, action
Orientation
celibate, bisexual
Eye Color
green
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn
Ethnicity
Vulcan, Other
Relationship
divorced, off the market, just here for friends
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
ain't had no skoolin
Profession
Computer related / Hardware, Journalist / Writer, Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
alone, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship
Socially, I am
loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, anti-social, better in small groups, home body
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Chinese, Chocoholic, Vegetarian
Personality
tree hugger, geek, introvert, punk, flirt, loner, romantic, frugal, nerd, thrifty, fun loving, pirate
Individuality
vampire
Miscellaneous
hard of hearing
Drugs
let's see, how should I answer this (wink, wink), never
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only
My Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Rock, Targ, Tribbles
Gender
Female, Intersex
Music
Opera, Folk, R and B, Jazz, Alternative Rock, Pop, Hard Rock, Techno, Celtic, Post Rock, Heavy Metal, Metal, Choir, Progressive Rock, Indie, Motown, Classical, Punk, Industrial
Hair Style
long hair
Fitness & Sports
bowling, hiking, walking


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About My Match  (What I'm looking for)


Hobbies & Interests
writing, killing zombies, photography, cooking & recipes, movies, reading, fleamarkets, music, shopping, gardening, comic books, weather, internet, naturism, computers
Movies
indie, bollywood, romance, comedy, romantic comedy, drama, sci-fi, action, horror
Eye Color
black, green, glass, blue, gray, brown, hazel
Their Ethnicity
Vulcan, Other
Relationship
off the market, just here for friends, seeing someone
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Internet, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no
Socially, they are
better in small groups, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Chinese, Vegetarian, BRAINS!!!
Personality
nerd, thrifty, fun loving, pirate, tree hugger, geek, punk, intellectual, flirt, loner, romantic, frugal
Individuality
pirate at heart, vampire
Religious Views
Buddhist, Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Deist, Pagan, Hindu, Wiccan, Agnostic, Jewish
Drugs
never
They are looking for
conversation, friends only
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Fish, Rats, Cat, Snakes, Iguana, Pot-Bellied Pig, Tribbles, Guinea Pig, Rock, Cats, Monkey, Farm Animals, Rabbit, Turtle, Sehlat, Guinea Pigs, Dog, Spider, Ferret, Rabbits, Bird, Turtles, Small Furry Creature, Horse, Dogs, Spiders, Ferrets, Rat, Birds, Snake, Horses, Farm Animal, Targ
Gender
Female, Intersex
Music
Opera, Hardcore, Alternative Rock, R and B, Industrial, Classical, Pop, Heavy Metal, Celtic, Jazz, Folk, Post Rock, House, Rock, Metal, Gospel, Progressive Rock, Indie, Chamber, Motown, Hard Rock, Punk, Choir
Hair Style
long hair
Fitness & Sports
yoga, bowling, hiking


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