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I moved to another city to start a new life as a man, and I am very happy about people not knowing about my S-- change. But there are certain situations when I have to tell people. My S-- partners and my doctors for instance. But should I tell my best friend? I am afraid to be seen as something I am not. In a friendship that is very important. With a lover, it doesn't matter, then it is more important that I can be naked and be touched.
My friend says he is openminded about gays, but whe I told hem about me having S-- with men, he started saying weird things such as, people like you are usually... He thinks that I am in certain ways because I SOMETIMES ---- men. I am worried that he will start to treat me like a girl if I tell me about my S-- change.
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mojo77
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I've got some friends that were in your same situation, they were scard to death to tell me, but I treat them like I would treat any friend. If they're really your friend they won't treat you differantly, if they do do you really want them as a friend?
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Granted I am a bitter man. But I agree if you tell this dide and he gets weird not worth much on the friend scale
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.Truth is allways precious.
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.Yes Truth is allways precious!!!as well as Trust..i feel they both go hand to hand!.
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.yah im ok,,in how about you,,,?
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.care all of them they will care you
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`truth and love are all that matters. when it comes down to it everyone who loves you will appreciate the truth.
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`Another thing is the amount of time and energy you invest in a friendship. If it provides you with something you need now, and can walk away from then you can keep it private.
If you feel you want a deeper and more permanent relationship, you risk throwing away that investment.
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.hi im pre op ts, m2f.
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