Rude people

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Is it just me or quite a few people on this site very rude. You send messeges to people introducing yourself and they read them and just ignore them, how hard is it to be honest and say you dont want to talk or anything else. The other thing that bothers me is when people add/accept me on windows live messenger and they dont bother to ever come online (why add/accept?) and others just appear offline, it not hard to tell that when someone comes online but appears offline when they change their pic or status message. I just dont like rude people and doing that is very rude, its not hard to be polite. Ive vented now so I welcome other peoples opinions on this.

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first up..if someone did'nt reply to your messages,it only means that she or he is not interested as simple as that,just keep on looking for someone who would respond to your messages the way you like it,coz once you signed up for sites like this,you should expect and embrace the reality that not all people will like you or will reply to you,actualy,there is also an option here,wherein if u are from canada or USA and you don't want to be contacted by someone outside,you can use the block management,so it means even other people outside would like to contact these people,,it wont be allowed coz its those people's option to just have contacts inside the US and canada,is that also your prob?well,i don't think you need to dwell with those people who did'nt respond to your messages and ignored you coz it means you don't need to push yourself into someone who don't know how to appreciate who and what you are,and bout the windows live messenger,i can't relate to it coz i don't have an account on that,but what i can say is,those people who added you there and just ignores you,,well,it means you don't need to beg for their attention,just find people who are decent enough and people who can be the wind beneath your wings,not just people who are trying to be famous just by adding alot of friends..coz you know why those people do that?they believe in ''collect and collect,,then select'' ,,what i can advice is,,do not take anyone for granted,especially,,those who' are near your heart,coz you never know when you might lose them and may never get the chance of tellin how you really feel,so that means,,value the people who values you as well,,don't mind bout those who does'nt care bout you,,

[ydcwusa]

`People just cant always get along and that is sad. But your right the right person will come along and that is what you want. Dont wasit your time on people who dont show. Life is too short.

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`Yep like the guy with no picture said don't waste your time on fake unseeable people.

[ydcwusa]

`Weather or not someone chooses to post a pic is an individual chioce. No one knows why or why not someone makes that choice. In a very cosially liberal community it is not nice to chatise someone for not posting thier photo. They might be shy, or they might just want to share thier photos with people that they are friends with. No one has the right to tell someone else how to live thier life. You might be judgemental to someone you might find that you really like. ; )

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`Pride, got to have some of it bubba, and in such a sneaky, socially chastised community (or so society deems) its a good investment to walk tall and bare a lot. That is the kind of openness that quality TG women and friends of the "community" look for. Life has a lot of masks and covers that people work through in their lives. Why make dating life, friends, and romantic interests a cover up too? I am a very proud man, comfident in my interactions here and the women and men I talk to. Are you? Or are you shy because some outside force will discover something about you? I'm sure you can't be all that ugly that you can't put a picture up? I'm a ugly S.O.B. and you do not see me hide for that reason. So down to the realistic lines of the matter, are you married? Have a girlfriend? Don't want work to find out? Or family and friends? I know your a well known celebrity, and you do not want to expose yourself due to negative publicity.

[ydcwusa]

`In life you have to stand up for what you believe in or shut up. I dont post becuase of many reasons and i stand up for that right. Just like you wna tto push somebodies buttons and cant help it that is just how you are. Maybe ADHD or maybe not. Just sayin. dont get mad im just kidding. have a nice day

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`SJ, just because someone doesnt reply to your emails and or flirts doesnt mean they are rude. When, anyone sends me a flirt or email, I take the time to read their profile. So, with that being said IF you had sent me an email or flirt...I would had ignored it as well. The reason why is in your profile, you plainly say that you are looking for "fun meets and friendship" to most women that reads as a guy who is out for ---. So that could ecplain why some people would ignore you. If you are not just looking for --- and you used the wrong words...change your profile wording .

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`I agree with manda panda.... Anyways back to what I was saying to the pictureless profile creeper. Dude realize by you running in circles with this your contradicting your own beliefs? When in fact you are pushing buttons just as myself at this point by even responding. And you can stand up as much as you want for yourself , your really not accomplishing to much, me I really am not that stressed about you not having a picture, I could careless what your the hell you look like. But why don't you go ahead and ask a couple of experienced women on here why they like pictures, I guarantee that not all of them are going to say " cause I wanna see if he is cute" the ones worth dating will say "i wanna see if he is confident and sure of himself". It's ok you have a lot of things to learn. Go ahead ask J.C., Amanda, or any of the other honest, true gurls what they think, I bet 100% the normal/sane ones dont just look to see if the guy has a picture just to make sure he is goodlooking. Like I said, it says a lot about a dude to be able to post his face along with what his life is, and every man should be willing to die for the life he lives and believes in. Bottom line YDCWUSA, profiles without pictures are associated with hiding for fear of being discovered, or they just simply lack the confidence to put one up. wether that be your situation or not your still going to be associated with it by the ladies (it's creepy). Look at it like this, pretend a highly sought after terrorist group shared a common icon/symbol with a neutral organization. Let's say you were in support of the neutral organization, would you walk around wearing the symbol/icon knowing very right well that it could be mistaken for the terrorist group's symbol and that the official's standing is to shoot first ask questions later? You would be guilty just because you have a icon/symbol that resembles the enemies. Hey if you like having your butt in the sling, and your here just for random --- and ------s then your doing everything correct. Otherwise debate with me about something else that doesn't happen to be an area in which I'm so experienced in knucklehead. Oh and what's with the have a nice day crap? I don't care wether you wish it to me or not, but you come off sounding like a Buddhist Monk or Celibate Guru. You should go through a detox to un-creepify.

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`oops,it seems that there's a serious argument going on here..i think i've said this before to some posts,,that if you are true to yourself,and true to other people,then you will achieve good and lasting friendship or relationship,,even if certain people are just looking for friendship or serious long term relationship,it requires certain aspects,,like honesty and trust,,trust is not given it is earned,,so how can some people trust a person if they don't even have an idea how they look like?but hell yea,,it is a screaming right to opt not to have a picture on a profile,,but in my own opinion,,i always value and attracted in a person's eye,,coz i can be able to *nalyze and sense into someone's eyes his sincerity and some of his behavior and personality..like the saying,,''our eyes is the windows of our soul'',,,its bliss if i get to see my lover's face and eyes all the time,,