Everyone wants an MtF but not an FtM?

[godzillaeyes1]

alaenagirl wrote: `this is just my opinion, im a mtf - men are horn dogs.

where the female population are not, so the more aggressive of the two will stand out more, its up to us ladies to keep you men at bay...

but in reality - i prefer as a mtf to be with a ftm - the problem is most ftms dont seem to want us mtf's.

which is sad because the two have a lot in common and would be happy together...

but for a mtf to be with a genetic female, the female is usaully bi-sexual

and straight genetic males would --- anything, mainly if its --------.

so in my case im with a another mtf which so far seems to be working...

but listen dude - you will find the right person just dont give up...

love you hunn, Alaena



I agree with pretty much everything you said. I'd love to date another transsexual (MTF/FTM), like myself, because we would have so much more in common.

Most women who show some interests in me tend to be in that bi/pansexual category. I feel like alot of straight women would date a gay guy, before they would a pre-op/post op FTM/MTF transsexual, while alot of gay women would date a straight man before they would pre-op MTF transsexuals. There are people out there who do go against the norm. Early in transition, I told a girl that I was transitioning to woman. She still didn't care. I've never seen her with any women...or seen her identify as bisexual.


Funny story, I tell people (men and women) that it's not a compliment (or really says anything important) to call someone ----able. Men will get their c---- off of anything that has warm, slightly moist feeling to it. Ball up fist, flesh light, plastic or silicone dolls, other men, all sorts of women, balloons, animals, teenagers, little kids, food, and etc). Getting f#cked by any old guy is not the hardest thing the world. Neither is getting or ped.

Even in modern times with the way younger women carry themselves and act loosely, they still put up some barriers or have show some reservations.

[alexisgay]

`i'm female and im interested in FtM ... i identify as a lesbian, but i'm highly attracted to FtM's ... i dont know anyone else who is though, and some of my friends think im strange, i think thats why im on here rather than on a generic site.

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`I love this thread. It makes me feel like some exotic sought after specimen, haha.

Although I think the initial question's answer is obvious- many MTFs are straight and guy's have "fetishized" them into some kind of fantasy, --- object. Guy's seek --- openly more, therefore it creates the appearance of MTFs being sought after more. One look at this thread and we can see that in reality this is not the case.

As far as meeting transguys- that's hard anywhere. We're trying to be stealth, so we're not going to tell you our secret unless we have to (like, we've started dating). Personally, in order to avoid a complete disaster with some straight girl who may not be into that part of me, I opt for queer girls. It automatically says to me that they're open minded and I'm not so cautious in pursuing them.

[lookingformtf4]

`All I can say for the OP is hang in there dude. Somebody is out there for you, it WILL happen!

[glosmouse]

`Phew - beginning to think I was the only "lesbian" who finds ftm's hot!!

[jt123]

`Well, I'm FTM. I tried dating a biological woman for three years and it all went to s---. She was ashamed. We got married because of a loop hole with indiana law but someone made an anonymous tip to the courthouse to check into my marriage license. They found a way to take me to trial. They only went after me, not her. August 13th, the day after my birthday, I was sentenced to a year probation and 80 hrs community service with my marriage voided. My girl left me a week later to go back to Illinois where she is from to go to school and then broke up with me 4 days after she left. Says I have no ambition to better myself. I personally thought that was what I was doing with my transition.

So anyway, now I am stuck here for the next year paying for the crime of marrying someone that didn't even want me. I will still give bio women a chance, but it has made me open up to the idea of MTFs and bio men too.

Sexually, I don't care, just leave the top part alone since that is what causes most of my dysphoria. Bottom half....well, I really enjoy a good ------, so if i get it by using the genitals i was born with, then that is what i do lol. I don't really see the big deal in being so offended by bodily terms. Meaning, if you don't like someone using the word vagina, just nicely ask them not to. Seems to work for me. No need to get your panties all in a bunch. Or underwear, or boxers, or chonies or whatever one wants to call them.....