Are guys who are attracted to T-Girls Gay, Straight or Bi?

[shazbah]

`Labeling is at the root of this question. If most people just went with what they feel, without fantasizing on what might be, we probably would not be discussing this question. Certainly we all have been affected by 'labeling' but I believe how far one goes with it, depends on the individuality of that person. Fantasy is always going to be a means to satisfy unknown 'labels'. Curiosity about the ultimate basis of life, ---, will never to cease nor will our persistence to discover all of its mystique.

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Bottom line is everyone is different. Honestly though the transgender community doesn't need the negative image that a lot of you "sex/----o-holics" bring to the table. Like I keep saying "turn to prostitutes for your curiosity". The reason people are labeled is because of social conformity. These non confident people who are confused about labels I find for the most part are scarred to he identified with something because they are phobic. Who the hell really cares what people think you are? You know who you are and that's all that matters. William the only suggestion I have for you is to pull up your big boy pants and put your man face on.

Sad reality is this though, and trust me I know. Some of these gurls go through their entire life regretting their lives, because why? "Oh I was born in the wrong body", these chicks get so caught up and ---- up that they can't be -------, passionate, intimate, or love correctly. Why? Because they spent most of them lives unhappy with themselves and not focusing on all the wonders and opportunities that life can afford. So after 30 years of hating themselves they save 50,000 dollars to go get a --- change. ? Why? because they suffer from what me and my friend Deanna like to call "Cinderella Gender Syndrome" (C.G.S.) this is a belief that magically life will change, their brains will change, people will accept them more, and relationships and --- will be divine once they have Genital Reassignment Surgery. As if 30 years of hating yourself and regretting your self will be magically over. Well that's just a load of bull----. Chances are if your not happy with what you have and who you are for 30+ years of your life SRS isn't going to change your negative mind. I have seen most of these "post ops" finely get there operations and they aren't any better of a person. They don't have any healthier of a mind. And I have a hey day with the so called "super experienced ones who like to man hate" I usually put them in the dog house. How does the old cliche say? Before you can love or like, first you must love yourself? Damn I couldn't imagine living till I was 30 till I can love all of myself. Life is to short.

Labels are labels, that's what they are and when your secure and comfortable with who you are then associating "with" or being identified "as" doesn't really scare you so much. You learn to let the world pass its judgement on you and give you what you deserve. You deserve whatever kind of heart you have. [list=][/list]

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For me it boils down to this. T girls usually try harder at being sexy and feminine. On top of that, I just prefer an*l ---. Post OP girls want to use their new toy. I know that that sounds sounds harsh but it is the truth. I am just willing to say it. I do not like guys, all masculine and hairy, YUCH!, quenches me like a cold bucket of water on a match!

If I could find a NB girl that almost exclusively wanted an*l intercourse to be all intercourse then I would be there. I have been with a few gurls, one for about a 2 years. I loved her. She was NF, and that was fine by me! I treated her like a NB woman. Dinner, movies, weekends in bed. Nursed her when she was sick. Rented movies and ate popcorn on the couch. The real deal. But, good things do not always last.

Yes, it is about sex, but yes it is about more. For me it is like, buying a car and having a preference for leather seats, and power windows. Got to be the package. Gurls, treat us much the same. Must be romantic, accept me for who I am, not keep me a secret, cut, uncut, nice eyes etc...bla bla bla.... So before you call someone out. Look inside.

[shalir]

Whatever you want to call me i do not care. Ignorant people call me gay but i am not turned on by men.

Feminity turns me on, in all of its forms.