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venusonearth
venusonearth
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Posted: Post subject: Trans 4 Trans (FTM's 4 MTF's) |
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So I've heard a lot of people say and I also agree that having spaces exclusively for trans individuals would be helpful. This may be a trans dating site but as we all know it's flooded with "admirers". If you are simply accepting of trans people than don't seek us out, just publicly make yourself an ally. Tell your friends, family, and post it on your facebook or twitter that trans is normal and you're down for whatever. But don't seek us out like we're something different or special.
That being said we ARE less than 1% of the population and having places where we can connect with others like ourselves is fundamentally important. I would like this forum post to be a place where trans people who are interested in meeting other trans people either for friendship or relationships can publicly make that known. I invite you all to share your trans identity and whom you are attracted too. Dialogue about what you like about other trans individuals and or why you feel trans 4 trans have a hard time connecting is also encouraged.
I'll get the conversation going with my own reply
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venusonearth
venusonearth
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`So first off I am a man of trans experience a.k.a a transman or w.e. I'm not hunng up on titles but I identify as a man and nothing in between, personally. I am attracted to women and whether they are cis or trans is of no distinction to me; but my community does do it better. The cissy's can't keep up but who can blame them. My community dope and our women are beautiful. When it comes to other people of trans experience I like that I do not have to explain myself and frankly that their is no fear or opposition to my genitals! Plain and simple. I feel trans people looking for other trans people is often difficult for a whole host of reasons. 1) In the beginning of most peoples transition they often feel that dating other trans people is a sign that they can't get cissy's if they wanted too and therefore its looked at as a sign of "desperation". But I say bull----. 2) Admirers and fetishes flood our community spaces. 3) No lie, trans people are confused or hesitant about what S-- will be like with other trans people especially when they're use to having S-- with cisgender people (cissy's... I love this word . )
Hope to hear from others soon
~Mario
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