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Are guys who are attracted to T-Girls Gay, Straight or Bi?
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ezravilla wrote:
`I am surprised to hear that these guys "who love women and the female form" are so turned off by post op mtf's. You would think that a girl with vagina would be more attractive to them than a girl with a penis. I suppose ---- IS to blame. Still .... shocking.



Sexual attraction is a psychosocial experience - That can also be why someone is attracted to trans partners. A man may not feel he has much of a connection with a woman who grew up as a little girl and lived through very gender normative experiences. I'm not saying all transwomen are/were tomboys, but generally, how we grow up affects our personalities, our sense of self, and how other people perceive us.

I can only speak for myself as someone who likes FTMs. I'm not attracted to women. I am attracted to someone who's able to share that experience with me of growing up female - Some women like that their husbands or boyfriends were "all boy" their whole lives. Attraction is not limited to who you are now in the moment. Otherwise we'd all be married to people we met at the bar.

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`My answer to the question "Are guys who are attracted to T-Girls Gay, Straight or Bi?" is (drum roll please) ... straight. Pretty easy. They're WOMEN!

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There are so many types of people out there and variying degrees of everything to do with sex, gender, s----lity. etc I think We like to put things as black and white in order to understand them, when really there is a far greater grey area in between.

I think once society realizes this on a wide scale, there will be more understanding and acceptance.


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Posted:     Post subject: I am 100% straight

And consider transsexual women to be the most beautiful kinds of women.
I dont know what it is that exactly turns me on about em, but i see them much prettier and they know what guys want. Come on, most of them are desirable to any man. And in no way do i consider myself gay. I like women and transsexual women are just another type of women

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is it need at all to discussed it?
of course the man who like ts is not a gay
to be gay mean to feel exiting from someone who look like a man and i dont know ts who look like that
when you see some beautiful lady on the street you dont think 'what vagina she has' you look her hair,her face her eyes, and you are exiting from her female power so you are not gay,penis is just one more advantage in a private life between 2 people -that's all
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`i agree with you gergana. if youre attracted to a woman no mattter what, then you are straight. if you are attracted to a man, then you are gay. thats the way i see it

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bigdaddye




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i seem to be in a similar situation which is one of the reasons i joined this site. i consider myself straight and i have always felt that way. But for me i think its the femininity that i find myself attracted to. i kinda feel like t-girls are the ultimate form of feminine because they made that choice. i dont mind whats between there legs because i dont see them as a male or want them to act like one. i love how a beautiful t-girl looks and acts because she chose to be feminine instead of born that way. idk just my 2 cents.

just here to keep my peace lol
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Im just going to answer your question that you asked, with what I think the answer is. I don't really believe in the whole straight,gay,bisexual thing. If you have any feelings towards someone, it should be because you love that person.........NOT............because of what they are. People focus on the wrong, not the right.

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[quote="gergana"]is it need at all to discussed it?
of course the man who like ts is not a gay
to be gay mean to feel exiting from someone who look like a man and i dont know ts who look like that
when you see some beautiful lady on the street you dont think 'what vagina she has' you look her hair,her face her eyes, and you are exiting from her female power so you are not gay,penis is just one more advantage in a private life between 2 people -that's all
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That is hilarious, but true. "What great vagina you have!"

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the true transsexual is different from a person that wants to be a "shemale" the "shemale" transmits a feminine image but makes use of her musculine devices to seduce. the true transsexual doesnt use musculine seductions she trasmit a feminine image as well as a female sensibililty" men that r into ts pre-op are in it for the taboo any man thats says " well i think of you as a woman " doesnt think of you as a woman

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laukik




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PostPosted:     Post subject: Not much info out there...
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`So your s----l knowledge is based on ----? Just wonderful!




Not everyone has a large exposure to the transgender community. This guy does seem naive, but exactly where else are some admirers going to get their introduction to your way of life if not through ----ography? I mean, are the stars of those videos shunned in the transgender community?

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chloedharma




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laukik wrote:
nordicblonde wrote:
`So your s----l knowledge is based on ----? Just wonderful!




Not everyone has a large exposure to the transgender community. This guy does seem naive, but exactly where else are some admirers going to get their introduction to your way of life if not through ----ography? I mean, are the stars of those videos shunned in the transgender community?



I think years ago that might have been a fair comment but now the online trans community is very easy to find.
I actualy understand if a man wants to enjoy ----, personally i find it repulsive but you can't really dictate s----l responses like that. That said, i do think that if a man wants to be involved with transwomen for anything more meaningful than a fumble then it's not too much to ask that he try to learn a little and respect our feelings first.
I've spoken to plenty of men who have been honest and said they don't really know much but would like to be guided on various topics, terminology and so on and as they have been respectful about it i've been more than happy to talk to them.

Addressing the original question, i actually find the replies given on this forum refreshing. On another forum i go on the majority of replies, mostly from TV's have been far more along the lines of thinking if a transwoman has a penis and a man has S-- with her it's gay. Trying to explain the significance of gender expression when considering s----l attraction seems to fall on deaf ears.
I feel that the gender dynamic between partners when considering s----lity is in most cases inescapable. When a person with a male gender identity and expression is with a person with a female gender identity and expression how can that dynamic be considered gay? It strikes me as being, well....if i'm polite i would say naive or limited but really i consider it moronic reductionalist idiocy.
If i go to a gay pub, which is not unheard of, i get absolutely no interest from the gay men there, lesbians.....god yes but gay men.....no. It doesn't matter what's between my legs, i could be as well endowed as a male ---- star, the attraction to me just isn't there to start with.

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phellum




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Even though there are many ways to get accurate information about the transgender community, I think most men don't know where to start. And then there's the added confusion that disagreements within the community creates - people who, one would think, would know better. The "----ographic" view of transexuals is, many times, perpetuated by members of the transexual community. Here in NYC, many transexuals refer to themselves with the t-word and men as t-word chasers... clubs are called t-word parties and involve transexual strippers and escorts. So, despite the fact that there is more information out there, the "----" stereotype dominates.

However, like most things, I don't think the phenomenon of having an approach dating and S-- based on ---- is exclusive to the transgender community. Cis-women I've dated have shown me the countless messages they get from men whose approach to women seems to come right out of a ----o.

It's sad, really.

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Posted:     Post subject: Does it make you gay?

This is a two part reply to your post, asking if dating or having interest in a ts makes you bi or gay.

If you are only interested in a TS based on a ----, I am sorry to say but you will more than likely be dissapointed. We ( ts) are more than a mere way to satisfy your fantasy. We ( ts) have feelings, emotions and dreams such as any man and or woman has. So, when you look at a ts, whether it be ftm or mtf you have to accept them for the way they are...in real life not based on a ----o.

Now, to answer your question " Does dating or being interested in a Ts make you gay "? The way I see it we live in a world that feels the need to label everything...if you are interested in a ts ( interested in the person not just the s----l fantasy) then it doesnt need to be labled..straight,gay,bi or anything else. What goes on in the bedroom between two conscenting adults...is no ones concern but theirs. So, there would be no need to label. Life is too short to walk around worrying about labels. Just be yourself...dont worry about placing a label on it

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hotandready12




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`i think ncamanda is amazing, and she nailed it right on the head. also she is ridiculously beautiful ;)

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