Is it wrong to desire this for a LTR in NYC?

[yt2000]

I have nothing against FTM or MTF, but is it bad to desire a genetic girl who is interested in both men and women? The main reason is um...that I have a big desire for children in the future, and with our current technology, it's not really possible with MTF. Plus, most of the MTF are in search of big guys

I have perused other dating sites with regards to crossdressing, and a vasty majority of the time, they are composed of men who are just looking for a quick lay, which really vexes me off. I do feel sorry for the guys who are in search of a longer meaningful relationship, since the bad ones always seem to overshadow the good ones.

Since I am fairly new here, what would the be chances of me finding a gal like that? I really do like how everything here is absolutely free though, but I wish that there was a larger customer base. How difficult is it to procure more people to sign up, or do we just fill just a tiny niche for those who are looking for a significant other?

[bcgurl]

`I am a member of a few non-sexual,TG chatrooms and a vast majority of TransWomen(MtoF) and some TransMen(FtoM) are married and or have been married and have children.I am including all CD,TV,TS,TG,Pre-Op,Post-Op ,Non-Op and InterSex persons.
I do however notice that it takes a two very strong and respectful people to accept one another.Most that already have a family and decide to transition have a spouse that aren't accepting all of the time and those who are CD and/or TV sometimes have a "limit" as to how much time they are "allowed" to be female.
I guess,as long as there is a very good understanding,any relationship will flourish,and many have and do.
Maybe it would be a good idea to try other sites and chatrooms to get a better network of friends.
Sorry to make this so long-winded but I tend to ramble.

[kimphne]

`I don't think your desire to meet a childbearing capable woman here is wrong at all. Your prospects, however, may be low.

I wish you the best of luck.