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Hi.. Im a single straight male from the UK. For over three years I have been attracted to MtF transgender women and I thought it was about time to exsplore these feelings, so I come on here hoping to chat and hopfully get to know a few transgender women to see how things felt.. For me its not the case of that I want to jump in bed with the first women that shows interest to cure a small curiosity but I really just want to get to know someone thats MtF trangender to chat with and learn more about my feelings towards, and hopfully make new friends!
The problem is im new to chatting with MtF transgender women and not sure what say as I really don't want to offend anyone. I have tryed just to be my self when I have messaged a few people to chat but no one has replyed.
Is there any tips or suggestions for someone new like me that can help me get to know a MtF transgender?
Thank you for any advice or help,
Jay.
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`Jay! If you are talking to a MTF who identifies as female [Not the just for kicks type] then you just treat her like any other female.
All any transexual woman wants from her life is to be herself and be treated as a woman because that is just what she is "a woman".
The body she was born into was a mistake! the mind works exactly the same as a geneticly born female "but" there is one main thing you need to understand and that is we do not have it easy so respect what we have to go through and support her when she needs it.
I have seen men post things like "we have mood swings" We do not have anymore mood swings than any other female its the crap we have to put up with .
If or when you find her you will find that if you treat her just like the next girl then you will also find that she will actualy be more loving and sensitive than a geneticly born female .
Best of luck Julia.
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suziech
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`Hi Jay
I agree with what Julia said. We are just like any other woman and want to be treated as such. Personally I do not even consider myself to be a transexual since it is just a label society has put upon us. I consider myself a woman, plain and simple.
Susan
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