I want to experiment, and Im not an insensitive dooshbag.

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Heya all. My subject pretty much said it. Im looking to try and date a t-girl. Im not sure what my attraction is, but Im down to try anything, and I want to try this. Im not really looking for a LTR, I am only 20. But I know how to have "fun" as most people refer to it on this site, and I know how to be a gentleman. So, if you want some fun talkative company who is not going to cross the line until its obvious you want me to, let me know. Send me a smooch! :P

[kellylicious]

`good luck lol

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I believe the political correct term you are referring to is transgender. As in someone who acts in a gender which is different from the --- they are born with, not t-girl. In addition, your ignorance is clearly translucent through the manner of which you wrote in this post. You are dealing with people here, not your prejaculant conceptions of a fun time. My suggestion to you would be to take your ignorant butt back to your own pathetically small wet dreams and dont come out until you learn some manners, kid. How in the world did you manage to live this long is beyond me.

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`Thanks jioio,
Another trans hero in our midst. We are more then a one night stand or an experiment. We are woman and men who want to find friendships that are meaningful.

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`You said it biirthaz! Let people know that this community is more than a sweaty Saturday night special on HBO. We are man and woman seeking to bond with other man and woman at a deeper level of understanding. But people like youririshboytoy, who dosen't even have the courage of posting his picture for fear of friends and relatives to discovered his ------ secrets, tend to make it almost impossible to get our words heard. We need to lift this curtain of ------ stereotypical context up and reveal our true intentions by speaking out.

[dannyt]

`If you want to experiment, pay an escort, that way you don't hurt anyones feelings when it turns out you don't like it or if its a one night stand, these woman deserve all the attention in the world, and that wont be coming from a 'douchbag' like you.

[stephaniets9]

jioio your own term to the whole "transgender" whatever i believe is wrong "acting" in the gender role to wich we were assigned however you said it. me i dont think i was assigned to being a "male" i personally believe that i had to try and be a guy to please other til i realised i was only hurting myself. i dont think i was assigned physologically mentally spiritually or any non-physicality as to be a guy and with the physicalities i got (other than a -----) i am actually on the fence as to if i am intersexed or not...and i dont mind the term "tgirl" cause in reality of it all you cant legally call us females til we are postop and we are not men at the same time. and me being on the fence as to being intersexed i dont mean p---- and -----....cause thats a stereotype as to them all....true i dont have a vaginal opening but i could possibly have a womb and ovaries the whole nine yards and nto even know it. and again your deffinition to transgender is wrong at least by me i think you looked the word up in the dictionary.. i personally dont go on man made deffinitions of words when it comes to a serious topic like transgender.....and going out to the guy who opened this topic all i can say is good luck and i agree with the person who said hire an escort that way if you dont like the experience then there wont be any hurt feelings between the 2 of you...and i can personally find ya some tgirl escorts if u r close to baltimore.

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` First, let me thank you for criticizing my writing. One of the aspects about being a writer is that I enjoy criticism. Another aspect of being a writer is I dont go around quoting definitions from books, thats nonsense. I preferred to quote people, but I do apologize for not citing my source for the definition of transgender. For that I believe I owe Cassie Chan a form of tribute. No, it is not the Cassie Chan from the power rangers; Cassie is a very talented person even though she was once a man. And in this line that you wrote and I quote “i personally dont go on man made deffinitions of words when it comes to a serious topic like transgender... You are leading me to believe that just because the person is a man what he says is rubbish. I see no association between “inferior writing to the writings of a man. Being a man I find that rather offensive. In another note, if you are curious and would like to know more about Cassie check out her website stephaniets9. Even though the websites name is what I am trying to justify in this lines. Transgender is a word for a woman or man who is in the process of or in the complete stage of transitioning from a male to a female or female to male. T-girl is slang for a man who changed his ---. And for your knowledge the term t-girl was made by a man. In this same note t-girl is not an accurate term due to the fact that the person is not a girl but a woman. I dont need a dictionary for something as common as the origins of words; you can quote me on it. But I am very interested by your term “on the fence what did you mean by that? Your post was slightly vague on the matter. Is it possible you can clarify it?

P.S. You misspelled “definitions.

[stephaniets9]

ok first off on the fence means you are trying to decide about something....and you are a write i thought you would have known that..and for your info tgirl is the accurate term for a pre-op transsexual woman ok now you can stop with your ignorance to the transgendered world ok ok power rangers grow the ---- up i didnt even know who played the yellow ranger for gods sake...anyway the chan person you are refering to maybe a transsexual woman ok i dont care to look her up but you can do me a favor and shut up ok.....i got 2 roommates both are pre-op MtF transsexuals like me...ok...Bianca doesn't ahve a problem calling herself a tgirl neither does patty because it si the accurate term for pre-op tgirls ok now ------- and ------- is a derogatory term used for ---- as is transsexual...tgirl fits it perfectly cause the T stands for transgendered or transsexual and girl is the gender as to wich you identify so shut the ---- up until you get educated ok...you are a guy we are not not in spirit and soul and ni our minds ok...you wouldnt know a damned thing about being a tgirl until god or whatever changed your mind a little when you were born and you came out like us tgirls so til you get educated you'll never know proper terms as to wich is ok for us..ok and i wouldnt wish this on anyone not even my enemies i got back down south...but for real do us all a favor and get educated on the transgender terms that are ok for us all...and i havnt met a tgirl who is ok with being called a ------- ------- or transsexual but they are ok with bein called a tgirl mainly cause we dont see it as offensive or anything ok post-op women wouldnt need to refer to themselves as tgirls cause they dont have their ----- anymore ok thats the difference in ou tgirl deffinition ok i dont wanna take up a whoole page trying to set you straight on the right s--- so have a nice day

[stephaniets9]

and also when i said man made deffinitions omg your responce to the...is totally immature and sensitive to what i meant by that ok "man made deffintions" is deffinitions came up by man kind in a nutshell has nothing to do with men ok......a woman could have easily have come up with the dictionary deffinition for transgender as easily as a man did ok get the freakin stuff right before you go on the offense as to what i say

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`Listen, we got off in the wrong foot here and all we are doing is just bickering about our own form of defying a word. The true intention of all this was to set this guy straight on the matter at hand, which by the way after many discussions was able to flee unnoticed. You might be going trough something that you think is bad in your life, but you will soon realize there isnt a thing in this world that can affect the way you think. Now since you wrote something about your struggle with the world let me say this; you dont know pain. Everything you have written cries out your true age and it is not what it says in your profile. If I didnt know better I would had to guess you have the experience of a thirteen year old. Barely struggling with the notion of boy or girl problems and the life threaten circumstances of what people think about you. Yes, you had it rough with your small gift but ask yourself this; did you had the support of your parents at any point in your life? Did your parents kick you out of their home? Did your so-called father abandon you as a baby? Did you pick your toys from a dump fill? Did you have friends in middle school and high school? Did your friend died in your arms because you couldnt save his life? Did you have to go to his parents and explain why he died? Did you watch more of your friends and coworkers die? Did you picked up the limbs and brains of those friends and coworkers? Did you have the opportunity to come back to a nation where people do not respect a war veteran? And aside from the fact that you visit the few friends you have left, are you alone right now? You dont know pain. I am a college student with over 35,040 hours of combat experience, qualified and trained in many weapons and equipment, qualified in CPR, basic and advanced life saving techniques, traveled the entire west globe and made many friends internationally which I still talk to, know four languages fluently and best of all I only need 27 hours to get a bachelors in psychology, 49 for an engineering bachelors and 3 hours for a minor in Russian which will bring me up to five languages. I have an education and before you tell someone to get one ask yourself, “Do YOU have one?¦.. I have dated transgendered women, bi-man and straight women from all over the world, including the U.S. if you dont know what the whole world means, and most of them have told me they dont really like the term because they are women and not girls. And honestly I have grown to dislike it as well and if anyone else would like to use it fine by me, but I will correct you where you stand. I will leave this forum and with it I leave you with the last word. I am no longer interested in writing in blogs nor am I interested in discussing meaningless squabbles. I do in fact enjoy this little escapade but not so much as to return. Write whatever makes you happy and dont let up, but do yourself a favor and find a dictionary. No matter how horrid the writing I can still read it and so can others. It is embarrassing. Thank you for your time and if you have other questions or comments email me. I will not respond to this post.

[northernboy]

kellylicious wrote: good luck lol
^ lol

[stephaniets9]

jioio look you win ok i do talk in ways that reflect my age i may not have served my country but i personally lost my mom wich for tgirls is rare considering everything she did wich wasnt normal transgender parenting and thats why my losing her tears my heart because you have other friends than one who can die in your arms but you only have one mom and when thats gone you cant replace her so guess what i am talkign like im 18 ok but my logic isnt that of a typical 18 person so think whatever and i can ---- better than you so i can go farther than you when it comes to being between the sheets

thanks a bunch. Stephanie Michelle