Relationships & Emotions

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[/b] In any relationship emotions can run high. When I've had relationships with transsexuals many will end, because I'm fully straight.(That's what they tell me that I'm too straight) I'm a Dom...how straight can that be? I use to train my subs, which were male, female, and transsexuals.
I'm more or less no longer in the life style. If I find a Lass that enjoys the life style, maybe. But I don't understand, any more is, I perfer a very long( forever if possible) relationship. Doesn't anyone ever stay together any more?
I'm also learning that Nebraska is quite a conserative state. I live here. Then again most won't bother anyone.(LOL)

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well no offense but to be quite honest if you referred to a woman like me as a "transsexual" like you did in your post, then I can understand why some of them may not want to stick around. Perhaps you arn't dating the right transgendered woman.. Not all TS or TG woman, are normal heterosexual woman.. actually just from the few friends I've made online I would say that is the exception rather than the rule.. I know for me personally there are certain area's that are off limits but at the same time, when I am in a relationship that is a lifelong committed relationship, and the man I love wants to touch me, as long as I am comfortable in who I am, I can deal with a little discomfort.. It sounds too me that you have some hostility towards Twoman in particular, again not meaning to offend but like I said if you refer to a woman like me as a "transsexual" it is disgusting and degrading..

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I am responding more to the previous response than to your post. I've been fulltime for over a decade and very few people "know" about my past life. I don't find the term transsexual offensive. It's what I am. I find transgendered offensive, as it implies a connection between we transexuals and others who are not transexual. I don't mind being called a blonde or a B----, because they are both true, and I don't mind being called a transsexual, cause it is true too. I mind being associated with those who are not actually transsexual much more.

As for you, I have found that guys who are domme, are more often than not attempting some sort of compensation. I have known female dommes, who did it to take advantage of guys who wanted to be dominated, and I have done it, but just cause he wanted to do things he wasn't comfortable admitting he wanted to do. It is a patriarchal society. Guys are born domme, and if one feels a need to take it further than that, it is very probably the product of an insecurity. A lasting relationship is built on mutual admiration and respect, and dominat... is absolute self admiration and lack of respect for your partner. I guess you would call me a trisexual, cause I have been with women, men and transsexuals, and have had very good partners with all three. The absolute least attractive person to me is a domme guy. Just buy a Corvette to prove your insecuries, and give up on bullying people. You really think someone hates themselves so much that they could make a long term situation of having you be their "master"? Damn, and people call me errogant.

Anyway, I'm a transsexual, and see no shame in that! It is not recreation or a clothing ------ for me. I live real world and function very well in society. If more transsexuals did it the way that I do, and didn't accept the alledged "transgendered" , transsexual wouldn't be something that they would be ashamed of either. It is the recreationalist and the fetishist who give us a bad name, and I have no more in common with them than I do some guy who thinks he can put on some leather and become a man.