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Hi.My name is paola from Malta but i live in Italy,i am a transsexual post op for more then 20 years,i am 47 years,in Malta i worked as a secretary in the hospital,6 yeas ago i met this italian guty on the net after a while he came to visit me and we fell in love,after a year i left everything as work ,family friends for him,he was so romantic and sweet,now after 5 years that we live together he has changed not romantic get angry for nothing,i feel so lonely,i need to finish this realationship and find another man who love me and cuddle me,im very romantic person and i dont deserve this.Thanks for reading my post. :D

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`Hi Paola.
Well if he makes you unhappy then finish it don't just think about it just do it don't wait because everyday that goes by is another day of your life wasted and life is to short to waste.
After everything you have been through in your life to become your true self no man has the rite to make you unhappy , actualy no man has the rite to make anyone unhappy .

If you take a look between his legs you will find his brains! so get a hold of them and sqeeze and twist them as hard as you can untill he begs you to stop then tell him to get out of your life.

You look stunning and am sure there is a decent man out there for you and when you find him "do not" allow him to break your heart make sure you are always in control.

All the best Julia .

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`Hi Julia thanks so much for your reply yes you are right ,but its not as easy as it seems,he does not btray me so do anything, its just his attitude canged if you now what i mean,thanks so much you look very nice too take care kisses.

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`Hi Paola.
Yes i do know what you mean "but" it is making you unhappy.

His attitude changed for a reason and unless you and him can find that reason and change it back there is no point in being with him . I know it is hard and you and others may say its easy for me to say but being with him is doing you no good so you may aswell be without him! it realy is not fair on you.

I do not know you or the man you are with but you have opened up on here for a reason and are most likely looking for answers but in reality only you and him have the answer to the problem but the way i see it he is the one with the problem and if you search every problem has an answer! so do you stay with him and stay unhappy? can you find out why he has changed? will he change back? does he want to change back? will you be more unhappy if he goes or stays? Lots of questions hey? and you need an answer for your own sake knowone elses just yours because you are the one who is hurting.
I truely hope you find the answer but most of all i hope you can find happiness again.

In a recent BBC interview i told the presenter "i do not cry anymore" i then asked is that inhuman? they could not answer me so i gave them the reason i do not cry any more "i have run out of tears" i have been hurt so so much in my life that i will not ever allow anyone to do it again but thats just me , its like a defense system i have built inside of me so i can stay happy because to me being happy is the most important thing in the world.

If you believe in god don't ask him for answers you are wasting your time because if there is a god or ever was a god he has taken a very very long lunch break you just need to look around the world to see that.

If you wish to talk privately please feel free to mail me .

You take care and most of all you look after yourself as i said life is to short and as far as i know you only get one and if there is an after life and if everyone put a bit of thought into it "we are proberbly already in it right now".

All the best Julia BIG HUG X.