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Sooo I'm straight, but...MTF, FTM whichever is good too. I'm still getting used to acknowledging this side of me. I was raised in a pretty terrifying home. My parents are big on the man and woman thing so I never really got beyond that...the trouble is...all the guys I've dated are jerks...and it's made me anxiety and neurotic prone which makes it even harder for me to find someone.
I'm not very good with communication (it was practically taboo in my family to communicate feelings), and I get frustrated a lot because I think I make sense but I guess I don't. I'm defiantly really high maintenance (I suffer from untreated Dysthymia...think I spelled that right...Functioning depression), but at the same time I'm always always happy to be there for people.
I'm also not very good with stuff like this...or with --- either...I try but I think I end up failing more then succeeding...
So yeah that's me in a nutshell.
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`So much going on...and now that I'm back and can read what I wrote...I'm missing something in there. Like the whole reason I started with that *facepalm* Okay so...here's the missing section of that big long nothingness.
What is a good way to approach the situation I find myself in. Friends and romantic relationships alike, I'm constantly worried that I'll do or say something wrong....because of that I end up with a pretty poor choice of friends. I right now can't afford treatment, which would be nice, but until then...Any advice for how to make and keep friends, catch the attention of those I find attractive, things like that?
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rhetoryk
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`I can't begin to tell you what to do, but I can tell you what has worked for me. I stopped worrying about what someone else thinks of me. Just be yourself, Seiwynn. If your friends are really your friends and worthy of your friendship, they will accept you as you are. If they cannot accept you as you are, then they weren't worth your time or effort to begin with and as difficult as it may be to get a grip on, you are quite frankly better off without people like that in your life. Even more so in your bed. If someone claims to care for you, then they care for you as you ARE, not as they wish you were. That's what causes so many break ups. Partners see each other not as they ARE, but as they think they can change one another into. People DO NOT change. So just be the best Seiwynn that you can be and let other people either get on board or get over it. Be well, sweet one.
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