am i wrong.

[ninestigmas]

Ive been searching for a significant other...the main reason that prompted me to join this site, But not long after I came to realize that I was getting messages from people who I would never consider dating. At first ashamed of my own thoughts, I considered and looked past these reasons. But I came to realize that...maybe I shouldnt lead them on, ofcourse I came to this conclusion after being disapointed in the outcomes of said situations. whether I was boring, stuck up, mean, or traded up...yes we all know it happens to us all except the apex of our fellow ts girls...and no this is not agianst those beauties that make us ( or maybe just me ) feel as manly as ever, if anything kudos. But from now on I shall accept that I only want to date hispanic and asian men. No im not racist my immidiate family alone consists of my cocoa skinned mom and sister and paper white brother and for some reason slightly yellow father. Does this make me a bad person?

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`I dont think it makes you a bad person at all. You like what you like...and no one should make you feel bad about it.

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`My ol granny was a square sight, she passed from life to life when I was very young, but she used to tell my brother and I that when we were older we were only allowed to marry - or even date 'a good Irish girl.' Better yet, a good catholic Irish girl, Protestants be damned...LoL good ol Native Irish women.

She wasn't racist either, not that I can remember anyhow, she just had her preferences, and Irish are raised to believe we're god's chosen few (lol).

Now moving right along, while I myself just love anything feminine, to me feminine nature is like living candy - but I will admit that there *is* in fact a soft spot there for the 'good Irish girl' type.

Then again, speaking of candy - I'm like a kid in a candy store, I love Asian ones, Hispanic ones, black ones, white ones blue ones, red ones...Hell I like em all. I'd make myself sick on candy if I could.

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u have the right to select who u want to b with and its your choice. it dose not matter what race they r as long as both of u r happy.

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`Sometimes we all can get lost considering choices that aren't right for us deep down. Its easy to be there, especially if you've had a hard time finding what it is you most desire in your heart.

You are not a bad person for doing that, and you are not a bad person for only wanting certain things. Never think that. Fight for what makes you happiest in life. That is what is most important :-)

[ninestigmas]

`Thanks guys very reassuring. Oh and ncamanda KU-DOS. Lol.

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`Hey take this from an oldie! You are young and will make mistakes but you will learn from them but i always say "don't ever" allow anyone to break your heart if there is any heart breaking to be done then you do it.

Who you choose to be with is entirely up to you! Grab a passing alien if you wish its your life.

Its my guess you will just bump into your man one day when you are not expecting it! just make sure if you or him have a cup of coffee in your hands it spills on him not you.

You have everything on your side! you are young free and beautiful and most likely giving a few men on this site a neck ache with them trying to look at your unrotated picture! make them work at it try upside down next time lol.

You are the next generation and have the world at your feet! you say you like playing games? well if men mess you about then you play games with them then disgard them at your will and never think twice about it , believe me they won't where your feelings are concerned .

Never turn a can of Pepsi upside down! the blue red and white symbol stands for "next generation" but if you read Pepsi upside down says "ISDED" Some kind of strange statement from Pepsi "next generation is ded".

Take your time and have a long and happy life! You deserve it.

Julia. PS avoid Pepsi.

[ninestigmas]

`Thanx julia your wise guidance is very much appriciated and needed among us the unexperienced and naive 'next generation.' :)