Why are transgender women so trashy?

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Furthermore, there are moral virtues are are globally universal in all cultures of the planet.

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the way i see it most people are not happy enough or have the courage to be themselves they have a view or a style that can be judged by other people to be tacky ,trashy etc but as long as someone is happy thats all that matters you should never judge someone by there appearance i think thats a horrible thing to do surely it is more respectable and just the right thing to do is that people should stop passing judgement on other peoples lives and focus on their own. i understand your point though you believe because someone dresses or looks a certain way that reflects on you i dont believe so its your own view on that person learn to love everyone because you only get one shot at life and its ok for people to dress and act however they like its their life not yours . dont worry about what people think about you never worry its your body , your life , your brain do whatever the hell YOU like they are not in control of you and if you do judge someone's opinion , style appearance then you could really hurt that person and that is not good dress it up however you want but if you attack someone verbally about their appearance thats low. respect everyones right to have an opinion , respect everyones right to live their own life and finally respect yourself because kids die from HIV , people go without food there are bigger problems the planet should of fixed by now but we live in a greedy world where people are self obsessed and couldn't care at all or even think about other people and how their actions affect other people .

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paige119 wrote: `Um.. I'm sure that there are probably quite a few transgendered women that do fit your description, but I assure you that there are just as many if not more that definitely do not fit that description at all (me included). I think it may be just the fact that some people tend to draw a lot of attention to themselves and that's what has caught your eye. And I apologize if it seems like I'm trying to start something, because I'm not.. I'm just saying that you shouldn't generalize trans women like that, because they're not all like that. I'm proof.




WHAT SHE SAID! making generalizations such as this are what give us a bad name. maybe stop being so negative and try to help some of those who aren't quite there yet with their makeup and dressing as opposed to being so demoralizing to everyone. it is this kind of bitterness and self righteous judgement that makes our fight to have normal lives even harder not a few trashy hoes. there are trashy hoes who are not trans on dating sites too but thewy dont give the normal women a bad name. so why would a few trashy trans hoes give you a bad name? dont be ridiculous. PLUS if you are trans why are you constantly posting how screwed up all the trans people are. IF YOU ARE ONE OF US SHOW SUPPORT AND STOP WITH ALL THE HATER ATTITUDE! cuz seriously. half of your posts are how every one is a piece of s--- or down talking transwomen. is this how you view yourself? or do you just think you are better than everyone else who's trans? (cuz, not to be the barer of reality but you are not.) either way it's just not cool. k? thanks.

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`I am not a *transsexual* and I am a part of the transgender community whether or not I like it. Don't come barkin at me B---- cause I'll bit back. My writing is an authoritative style of writing, nothing more. Instead of assuming character traits based on the way I compose a sentence; try asking relevent questions to ascertain facts instead of conjecture or is that a little too much for your brain to process?

What i find amusing is that your mood switches from aggressive and abusive to apologetic and loving *after* you verbally bash me. You are doing exactly what you are lecturing to me not to do....----in hypocrite. Clean out your own backyard before telling me how to keep mine. Furthermore, making generalizations is the very essence of being a human being. You nor I or anyone else can escape labeling, making generalizations and placing things into categories. Without it, you'd still be a man living in a cave so back the ---- up off me.

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`no you are just a B---- with a chip on your shoulder who should just be removed from this site. since all you do is talk s--- and tell everyone how much better you are than everyone else. and you dont know s--- about me. i have all of what 6 posts. so go play a nice game of hide and go ---- yourself. cuz if every there was a piece of trashy --- hoe on here i would say it's YOU! and that's the last i have to say to your dumb ass! what a hosebag gutter trash piece of work you are. it's people like YOU that make our struggle for equality so hard and it's people like YOU that give us a bad name.

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`Again, you never showed me where I have ever stated that I am better than anyone else. Why is that?. I speak facts cupcake, it's not talkin s--- if its the truth. You can dish out the bull---- but you cannot take can ya. Are you really so dense that you cannot formulate any type of real response but instead always resort to sarcasm to cover your own inabilities to conduct meaningful conversations at the expense of other people? Fact is, cupcake, that many transsexual women are trashy. Next time, before you want to critique me then look in the mirror.

YOU automatically started attacking me and making lots of assumptions on what I am saying without even saying one word to me, then you attack my personality with your gibberish and expect a cordial response? Are you serious? B---- if you want to insult people then you better expect the same in return.

Have you seen most of the people in this social minority group? It seems to me that many people that claim to be a transsexual are confused transvestic fetishist. Maybe it's them you should be directing your attention on. I asked a QUESTION, dont try to come here and bash me with your diarrhea.

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`I agree that this behavior may be an attempt to live out some sort of fetish, or maybe they get a kick out of the nasty comments people try to pass off as pickup lines. The fact is that this isn't just something that is on this site, or other trans gender sites for that matter, this behavior is on every site that deals with meeting new people. You see the same behavior from women who were born women, and it happens not only online but out in the world aswell. --- is one of the biggest motivators to the general population and this may be a quick answer to striking up some kind of quick chat, but not with anyone worth keeping around. People who are really looking for a real relationship are going to pass by these people labelling them as not relationship material. As for them giving a bad rap to other trans genders, only an idiot would believe that any two people are identical in nature. I grew up in a house out in the country with five brothers, even with them being the only ones to play with and look up to the difference between who we are is so aparent that you wouldn't even know we were related. There are things that do that could never in my wildest days see myself doing, and im sure that is mutual. Anyone planning on meeting anyone on the web should really get to know the people they talk to beforehand and make very positive that they are the person that your looking for weather it be for a real relationship or other.

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`I'm pretty sure I met Natalie on another site, if so she is post op, so has been all the way down this road and then some. Always a shame to see intelligence and experience like hers scoffed at, and gone.

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`I find we are more held back by mannish mtf's than overly ------ ones. If it's about worrying about what people think of us that is.

IMO there are two types of transsexuals. the ones who transition to fit in with the world and the ones who transition and then want the world to change for them.

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`I’m sorry that some of the people who posted to this thread are no longer members – they seemed really interesting.

I think all any of us can do is be authentic and true to ourselves. In the FTM community there is a lot of pressure to act a certain way, get certain surgeries, have a certain hair cut etc if you want to fit in and if you want to pass. Personally I think that’s a load of rubbish.

As for a mans opinion on ‘trashy’ photos – FTM and cis men and women are just as guilty. I’ll be honest with you – revealing photos of women appeal to me to look at. I may even contact them and make an attempt at getting to know them but what I have found is that people who post provocative pictures usually aren’t mature enough, or have enough substance of character to keep me interested very long.

That kind of public display of insecurity and need for validation is a bit of a turn off.

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`An interesting topic. I'm jumping in far too late, but I'll put in my 2 cents anyway.

I sorta agree with the OP, but I also feel to each their own.

I use to cross dress a while ago, and I'll admit the act of dressing was a ------ turn on. But, I never got into makeup, just the trashy bedroom attire. One thing I didn't do at the time was body shave. I look back now and think that's pretty gross. A hairy cross dresser? Yuck! I also use to wear a bra and pad it to give me the feel of having breasts. I think that's a popular thing to do for cross dressers too.

Fast forward to the present: My views, interests, and turn-ons have changed. I don't cross dress any more, but I do 100% body shave. I don't pretend to walk around shaking my hips or talk feminine. I just act natural. My attraction has nothing to do with breasts now. I actually find a flat chested cross dressers a major turn on. Plain jeans and a tank top with little to no makeup and a short tom boy hair cut. I find that far more sexy than the show girl look. As for personalities, that's all that matters. Doesn't matter if they have a male or female voice. Are they down to earth and real is all I care about.

Point being, my views have changed and that's how I look at others. I don't see anyone as right or wrong. It's really to each their own. The only hang up I have with some M2F cross dressers are the men bashers. The "I'm a lesbian trapped in a male body" mentality....sigh....again, to each their own...we all have our excuses. OK, I also have a hangup with hairy cross dressers....haha....I know, I was one too.....but seriously girls......shave.....just shave it all. Body shaving is quite popular for guys these days. There's no excuse for not body shaving....unless...that's the ------ appeal you're going for.