Is what i see real? Super models!.

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I have been a member of this site since August 2011 me thinks and in that time i have seen people from all ranges but this is supposed to be a dating site and when i see pictures of what can only be discribed as "super models" and when i say that i mean images that would not be out of place on the front cover of Vogue! If these people are real then most of us may aswell give up now "but" it is most likely they are not real ( i actualy know for a fact some are not) .

My point to this is if people think they are for real then the rest of us may aswell delete our photos today because I "that is me" am just plain me and never pretend to be anything different , i am old and nothing special in the looks department and would never discribe myself as "Sexy/beautiful/gorgeous" or anything in that range as some vain females do . I have done a bit of a test this week by mailing a few of them with me complimenting them (not the fakes) and guess what? as i expected not one reply just to say thank you but as i said it was just a test ( I like playing games if i get bored and thats not often) .

Beauty is a wonderful gift but if it makes you "brain dead" i think i would rather be me and stay single untill i die because if these brain dead beautiful girls cannot find anyone then i think being plain or just plain ugly "but with a brain that funtions" then the latter is more for me because i am rather attached to my brain.

So if you are like me (you poor sods) then just be proud of who you are because you are real and that is more important than beauty.

I will just add that the nicest girl on this site (in my opinion) is actualy extremely beautiful but she is real and a true friend .

Julia.

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`I'm sure that as with any site that allows pictures of members you have those who are honest and those who aren't. Personally though, I prefer a few flaws in a woman - I know I have my share, it seems unrealistic not to mention unfair to demand perfection in someone else. :P

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`Hi John i respect you and your opinion you are an honest down to earth man living in the real world.

Those females i was refering to are not looking for a date and if they were they would be knocking on your door! I would be interested to know if you have tried to start a conversation with them or wether they ignore your emails.

I maybe many things but one thing i am not is stupid! Some of those images are of genetic females and some are stolen images and yet another has just joined displaying an image from furniture advertisment (head cut off as usual) I would seriously like to know the point in it because if they are looking for a date the other person would be in for one big shock when the real person behind the fake image turns up .

You like flaws??? "you will love me then lol" but i am with all of my flaws a real person and i very rarely get any normal contact from any man on here , i get ------ junk and have had a few undesirables removed from the site because they have gone way to far with thier thoughts , they would not say things like that to my face.

I am not happy with the way i look but i am happy with my life and even my genetic female friends say they would die for my figure ,i stop traffic "its true" and i find it realy funny that happens because my friends who are in my opinion beautiful geneticly born females have to use a crossing but i tell them the men in the cars are just perverts! Oh its so much fun being me.

If i at my age can upload unmessed with images then i know others can and have like myself no reason to be ashamed of themselves its the ones that look like they should be on the front cover of Vogue that should be ashamed! Ok it may look nice but it is deception for any dating site , at least i know if i ever met anyone from here they would recognise me if we met because thats what i look like , i should know i am the one who has to look in the mirror everyday.

Take care and thanks.
Julia x.

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`IMHO - it is a person's flaws that build character. Sure these models in the pictures these people use have it easy, I'd imagine most everything gets handed to them by a society that happily demands and rewards perfection. But - What happens when they're no longer 'perfect?' - Then they become lost, unable to make their way in the 'real' world. I'm sure it's nice to be told you're what everyone wants, great for the ego and all, but when that 10 - 15 year gravy train runs out you're pretty much screwed.

A couple of weeks ago I saw a TS from here in Rapid City and talked to her for a span of 5 e-mails before she was trying to milk me for money. She was gorgeous and most men probably would have given her exactly what she wanted, me too had I had it to hand over, when I said I didn't have any, she proceeded to inform me that this was our last message and I haven't heard from her since. Oh well, I'm not worried, I only mention it because I think it should be on the table that there are many kinds of phonies out there.

I suppose people want to find acceptance? Mayhaps that is the point, or maybe they are living out some fantasy of theirs to be a TS man or woman?

However, I think they should be careful - Transsexuals have been revered by just about every past culture around the world, the Greeks, the Hindus, Native America(s), as being 'between' worlds, usually priests and priestesses of one form or another, like dusk and dawn are times between day and night. I think they fool with powers they don't understand...This is why we should all just be who we are.

And you do have a nice figure. :)

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`John! She asked you for money? I think thats what you call a hooker over there in the states.

You may find this hard to believe but i have been offered money! (yes we have mad men in the UK) not only mad men but to offer me money blind and desperate ones to.One crazy man offered me £100 to spend an hour in the same room as me and he promised not to touch me (now thats wierd) .Of course i told them where to put thier money as i am very capable of earning a decent living and enjoy my work "i get to meet normal people" problem is they are married .

I have been single for 7 years now and my guess its the way it will stay now untill i die but i am ok with that if its how its meant to be.

So i am stuck between worlds? 54 years is a long time to be stuck must be good glue.

Its strange you mention powers as i have been able to do things others think are tricks but they are not! i have moved objects without touching them and stuff like that but i don't think its me doing it! i actualy think there are spirts around me doing it and that means they read my mind .I have seen things around me since i was a child that others cannot see but they do not bother me as they seem ok (so far).

Take care .

Julia x. PS Thanks about my figure! i used to be fat but i lost 70 pounds in a year i just need a new face now xx.

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`Stuck? I'm not sure that's the word I'd choose, I think of it as a sort of wheel. Things are seldom as simple as summer and winter, day and night, male and female or 'yin and yang,' there will almost always be middle ground which lay betwixt what is black and white.

This I have come to consider is much of the reason for the perversions and disdain felt by many in our modern societies. The reactions that people can have to things they can't (or won't) understand can be many and varied. Personally, I like to try to understand such things.

In the Irish manuscripts of the older oral traditions you find that the most 'mystical' events and people (births and deaths, what have you) happen at Dusk and Dawn, or the days that exist between the seasons such as Samhain or Bealtine, I think that the transsexual consciousness also exists at such a crossroads of reality.

Now, on 'powers' what I actually mean is, that between land, sea, and sky exist many worlds 'to the west.' A person who's consciousness exist 'betwixt' would be closer and more able to access the gods, and as such more able to exact their 'vengeance' without even knowing they've done it.

In ancient times that was what priests and priestesses did, they were the mediators so to speak - the go betweens between man and the gods. Who better than someone who live their lives in places unseen by the rest of us, like a transsexual? :)

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`Well, I am real and am not a model or a hooker either...LOL

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`Here in NYC, it is very difficult to find someone who isn't looking for a "donation." Not to say someone interested in actually dating isn't out there, but they kind of get overshadowed by the escorts. I've also had the experience where, after a couple of email exchanges, money is brought up. It's a bit disappointing, to say the least.

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`You have got to be careful though before tarring all people with professionally done pics with the same brush. My ex did some modelling when I first met her, and she had her modelling shots on her profile as they were some really good shots of her.

Now to any who didn't know her, professionally shot pics would have people instantly assuming she was fake.

Not that I don't agree, you get alot of people online with super model style shots who turn out to be fake/escorts/webcam models all looking for you to part with some cash.

Merry Crimbo all :D

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`Hookers are everywhere. So they have to look like models to attract men. And this is really disappointing because some guys(mostly westerners) here are automatically think that a TG/TS is a hooker or escort if they are very good looking. It makes some of us more hard to find the right one.

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`I believe in the saying "if it is too good to be true then it probably is". Some women put up fake pictures to get attention, they have no intention in meeting anyone in person or establishing a real relationship. For myself I have nothing to hide, I like being myself and not try and pretend to be someone else. My own picture is the real me and not some supermodel, lol.

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`Hey sister!

Here's the thing, the younger you are when you transition. The more like a natal female you look. Add that with the advent of relatively cheap small facial procedures, much higher access to hormone therapy and voila you have transgender supermodels. I live in san Francisco and we are all around I know some of the prettiest girls here who have never had surgery and aren't escorts, I don't escort. Not that I judge those that do but its not easy to find work and some people would love to have a life of --- and money. I think that its awesome that now girls especially in California have access to free services at younger and younger ages! When im 40 I'll have lived more years as female than male and you better believe this cougar will be on the prowl....

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`i believe the younger in transition you are the more natura you look but it is also those blessed with feminine lookin carictaristics naturaly i mean its mostly genetics.

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`I totally agree with you its a genetic lottery where your odds get worse as time progresses. Although I think that to put people in a category of being fake or hookers because they look good isnt exactly fair. NOW Im not referring to myself I mean In general on this site.

Oddly enough after I posted my thoughts, Ms. Julia4you sent me an email that wasn't very nice. Now I pride myself on being respectful and down to earth, to have some lady not only email me fluff but actually pick at my appearance in a deprecating fashion made me laugh.

I feel As a community we should build each other up not break each other down. Especially when the majority of society scrutinizes us so harshly. In our own community I feel we should really strive to take concern for each others well being. Julia I think you are Lovely good for you girl on your journey. You say you don't like the way you look! Well I do, I think you are beautiful! Don't ever let anyone tell you differently.

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`Is what i see real? Super models? No, however it may seem that way. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. However, everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.

Moreover, All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame someone, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you
are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.

In addition, each experience in your life was absolutely necessary in order to have gotten you to the next place, and the next place, up to this very moment. So, go for it now. The future is promised to no one.