new mature male from Milwaukee WI with some different attitu

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Hi there Im a 55 year old white male living in Milwaukee WI my attitude and reasons about dating a T/S woman may be a bit different. A little background info might help explain some of the things I'm about to say. Years ago I met and dated a wonderful girl after a time and before becoming intimate she told me she was a post op T/S I didn't know a lot about it at the time but we got along great and I didn't see where her past made much difference so we continued to date until she moved away but it did lead me to do some research and check out some sites that I found that were not ---- sites that actually allowed for learning about transgender people. After spending considerable time there and elsewhere I really do understand it I don’t think of the women as T/S to me they are just a woman I know in my own mind that they truly are women in mind and heart so for me it’s just a man and a woman dating and it’s very easy to just forget about it. I’m not looking for a “girl with something extra†or a fantasy I’m looking for a girl friend and trying to find that great love of my life, So why date a T/S woman ? I have various reasons for wishing to do so and I will freely admit some are a little bit selfish although I wouldn’t consider any of them to be perverted or voyeuristic.
Number one I love women and I have found many of the T/S women to be more feminine than typical modern day natal females and I don’t think a T/S woman will ever take being a woman for granted like so many natal females seem to.
Number two I think and this is only an opinion but formed from talking with a lot of different girls that a there will be a much higher degree of fidelity in the relationship (one of the selfish reasons). A nice trans woman who finds a decent man is not going to run around on him.
Number three My personal experience leads me to believe in general T/S people are more understanding and willing to work at a relationship and much more communicative open and don’t play games also with a different perspective than a natal woman which makes communicating much easier without all the BS a T/S woman understands a male in ways no natal female ever could.
Number four a much greater likelihood of meeting a girl who will be a kind affectionate loving faithful smart full partner for a man who has taken the time and effort to learn about the realities of what it has taken for her to have transitioned and knows what she in all probability has lost along the way with family friends and posably a spouse and who has thought long and hard about the problems and possible benefits of having a T/S woman as a life partner and is fully able to put the T/S woman's past behind them and simply treat her as the woman she is and not feel any embarrassment or guilt or give a damn what anyone thinks of the decision and treat her like the woman she is with family, friends, and in every day life with love and affection
Number five is probably the most selfish reason of all. A smaller pool of decent available understanding males like me to chose from means she knows how hard it is to find a man like that and she will never take that man for granted.
Now you have an admittedly brief but pretty good idea what my thoughts are about a T/S woman and you know I have thought this through pretty thoroughly and my eyes are wide open to possible problems and benefits to actively seek a T/S girl friend. I have dated recently and will be continuing to do so. I am seriously looking for miss right I am ready and willing to settle down with the right woman in a committed monogamous relationship so if you think you might be ready for that. I said I am straight and I meant it I’m not looking for a C/D T/V or a part timer I would really prefer a post-op woman and it need never be mentioned again about being T/S but I have dated pre-op women before and I realize that SRS doesn’t make you more of a woman it just changes the plumbing so I’m open to a pre-op who may be post-op in the future (and yes if were together I will be with you every step of the way supporting you in every way I can) I will be there for anything you need. I understand how important a time of your life that will be I will be there holding your hand when you go to sleep and I will be there holding your hand when you wake up for the first time congruent in mind and body in fact I think it might form an incredibly strong bond between us I make no bones about looking for a T/S girl friend I have thought about it I know what I want in a mate and think I have a better chance of finding it with a T/S woman so there hasn’t been any embarrassment or guilt in the past nor will there be in the future in dating a T/S woman. You can be stealth or out with my friends and family its your decision and I understand and respect that. I am confident enough in who I am and what I want to not give a damn about what someone else thinks and we will simply live our lives together like any other couple Ok whew that lays it out pretty plainly I think where Im at so if you think you might be miss right please contact me. One last thing lol I snore so if your hearing impaired it might be a plus