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				I moved to another city to start a new life as a man, and I am very happy about people not knowing about my --- change. But there are certain situations when I have to tell people. My --- partners and my doctors for instance. But should I tell my best friend? I am afraid to be seen as something I am not. In a friendship that is very important. With a lover, it doesn't matter, then it is more important that I can be naked and be touched. 
 
 
My friend says he is openminded about gays, but whe I told hem about me having --- with men, he started saying weird things such as, people like you are usually... He thinks that I am in certain ways because I SOMETIMES ---- men. I am worried that he will start to treat me like a girl if I tell me about my --- change. 
 
 
 
 
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		mojo77
 
  
		     
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				I've got some friends that were in your same situation, they were scard to death to tell me, but I treat them like I would treat any friend.  If they're really your friend they won't treat you differantly, if they do do you really want them as a friend?
 
 
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				Granted I am a bitter man. But I agree if you tell this dide and he gets weird not worth much on the friend scale
 
 
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				.Truth is allways precious.
 
 
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		ashley161
 
  
		     
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				.Yes Truth is allways precious!!!as well as Trust..i feel they both go hand to hand!.
 
 
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				.woop
 
 
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				.yah im ok,,in how about you,,,?
 
call me in my mobile 
 
 
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				.care all of them they will care you
 
 
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		sepolt1
 
  
		     
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				`truth and love are all that matters. when it comes down to it everyone who loves you will appreciate the truth.
 
 
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		sjtcurious
 
  
		     
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				`Another thing is the amount of time and energy you invest in a friendship. If it provides you with something you need now, and can walk away from then you can keep it private. 
 
If you feel you want a deeper and more permanent relationship, you risk throwing away that investment.
 
 
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				.hi im pre op ts, m2f.
 
 
new to the site. hope to meet chat date, whatever really just gis a txt an lets go | 
			 
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