do transmen date T-girls??

[gourgegirl]

hey there i am a mid something 20's transexual living in brisbane australia im basically just putting the word out there i would love to chat with F2M transmen around my local area it doesn't have to be anything of a dirty nature even though i would like one for a relationship just a chat and get to know people as i am finding it hard to even find one in real life i don't really know where to start..........

my question to people is: do F2M ever date M2F transexuals?

i would love to get your feed back and replies thanks guys

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`Hey there yes they def do....my last two relationships were with men who were ftm...and in my exsp,,,it was much more rewarding than biological men..lets face it ,most bio guys see mtf as a fetish...with ftm i got a real relationship with a real man...who knows how to treat a lady...i so got for it girl...i have nothing but great things to say about my exsp...keep in mind he will be on hormones and so will u,,so emotions run high...thats one thing to keep in mind....it gets tricky....good luck
hailey

[gourgegirl]

`thanks hailey for that wonferful reply yeah i gathered emotions run high in situations like that i have been watching F2M videos on youtube and i am intreged alot i guess you don't hear much about it it's more M2F.............. now i know what to prepare for i just need to find out where to find one LOL that's the hardest part :(

[1sebastian]

`I am sure it happens. I am pre-op, pre-T, but am hoping to at least start T soon. But I know if a MTF came to me and we hit it off, I would most definitely be open to it.

As far as I am concerned you are a woman. And I most definitely like the ladies. xDD lol


I have noticed that to btw, bio men seem to view it as a fetish. I can't quite grasp the concept of that. Also info on FTM is lacking. I get most of my info off youtube, watching Vlogs.

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`Sebastian, you are absolutely correct. I second every statement. I want to add, that we are finally starting to see Transgendered actors and topics discussed in the media. However, it always seems to focus around MTF. Now, I am a person that has dated Transgendered women quite happily and I have no hangups. But as you mentioned, where is the acknowledgement for the FTM community which should be validated just as much. I dont think either should be treated as a fet--- and that is something that bothers me. It also bothers me when Transgendered girls play to that fet--- so that it can continue.

[1sebastian]

`I was happy to see that the media was beginning to get involved with it, but like you said so far only MTF have been mentioned. Also from what I have seen, nothing negative yet; which is a good thing. But nothing to do with FTM, I think it might be something they are trying to ignore. Or maybe it is that they know there is a fet--- for MTF and so play off that for more viewings. Either way I wish someone would shed some light on that part of the spectrum, lol.
I completely agree with you on that. I understand everyone wants some action, and at times you might get it where you can. I just wish these women would respect themselves enough to turn down a man that just sees you as a fetish, not even something real.

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In that matter I think transguys and transgirls would be more likely to understand one another.
And to get back to the original question; I sure would date a transwoman, like Sabastian I see you as female as well.
And I'm also exited that the media is writing more about transstuff.

[natkat]

`I have been in love with a ftm, and one of my mtf friend have told me she had or still have a crush on me...

so if the persons like each other then yes.. however the ftm I liked refused me cause he wasnt gay"

but I think as happyduckline sais that trans people easly tend to fall in love with each other. I think it because that we understand each other better, and for me I know I wouldnt like to be in a relationship with a person who couldnt understand me specially as a trans person.

the person I would be with should have a accepting and for a point understanding of me as a male, and it way more easy for trans people than for non-trans..

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`I would, except I can't find any in IL. I am se---lly attracted to MtFs and bio males, though I am willing to date bio females.

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`I am a bio male that crossdresses, and I have had a few relationships with transmen. I found them to be very good partners, and really wonderful lovers. I have always loved the masculine energy combined with the compassion of the inner female. Don't get me wrong I am not saying they are female, I just feel a close connection to who they are and how they treated me.

[gourgegirl]

`Wow thanks everyone your comments have Been very enlightening I've only ever been with one F2M and it was the best S-- of my life there was such a connection of complete understanding and I'm looking to find that with sineone new I know i could have the same with a bio msn but that fet--- role is big here so that is either all there looking for or they can't get past that i have a -----

[elektranatchios]

`this is a good read

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`i think you should date whoever your attracted to... alot of good posts on this subject i must say...

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I've never been with an FTM, I think many FTMS are really handsome and I wouldn't mind dating one

[gourgegirl]

`Yes same here but unfortunately two years later I still have not had the opportunity to meet another one, I have heard of a local club that does a T night every month but im very nervous about the whole thing.....no one likes rejection