Who wants FTMs?

[natkat]

EM: I wont say dating mtF or ftM nessesary is more easy..
still ------ety and attraction has its point.. and personalety of corse..
I know mtf or ftm I been attracted to, but it still a question about if they like me, I like them.. and also if there into guys or only like girls..

I been refusng from my ftm chrush because he wasn't gay..
but he said he would defently had dated me if I where a girl..
but one thing is more easy.. trans have the felling for how it is, and the understandin not all people have.. and no matter what wont have 100%..
I wont date anyone who couldnt accept or understand that point for a pretty level. in that way it more easy since you dosent need to use time to make your partner understand this issues.
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tyoka: oh thats my boy.. not being gay or straight.. that cooll..
LOL and dont worry I like -----, I just dosent like that the other guys have it and I dosent.. spcially not gay guys who seam to be a bit dissapointed.. T_T sniff.. but anyway..

the highschool kids.. yeah diffrently not worth it..
in general I dosent like to date someone who still in "highschool" because of that..

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`I think you are SOL with the gay boys natkat....when it comes to the intimate part of the relationship....we all know what they want ;D I think a transgender relationship both ways would make it a little easier, but not bucket loads. There could be conflicts about transitioning and too much understanding. But it might be easier, like you said, in the whole time factor. You won't need that "get used to it time" ;D
I don't like labels either! But it's hard to not use them when we do so much. It's just a bad habit for me, and for lots of people....and some people LIKE labels. I think gender and ------ preference shouldn't matter....as long as people like and love the person they're with, why should it matter?

[natkat]

`I dosent really belive in 2 gender or 2 ------etys.. I belive gender and ------etys are so complicated that we hardly can explain it.. I belive if we where to go into having it 100% correctly then each people on the earth would have her own gender and ------ety.. = way to complicated..
--- I usunally say if we going to use the labels then ever people have 3 genders, and also some more of ------etys.. than just one..
but some of them are more important than others..
for me: the mental and social is the most important..
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p.s what dose SOL mean?

[tyoka]

SOL = s--- out of luck. I honestly thought he was referring to Sol Badguy at first =D How loopy.

The ----- is neat, but it's overrated. There are plenty of ways to simulate it, so to decide on a partner over something like that is just dumb.

About the highschool thing, my creed is that anyone under 30 isn't worth dating. It seems like you don't really find your place in the world, or at least your goals for it, until then. I say this being 24, but still. That's probably not a good creed for everyone though.

[natkat]

`well okay SOL meand sun in my languarge(or can be a special website) but I figured out it couldnt be what where refering to...
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)=( so im not worth dating.. hff..

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`so im not worth dating either?? *pouts* hmph! =[ lol jk...i understand that i guess. hey I dont date anyone OVER 30 hehehe and u are worth dating natkat so hush! lol XD

[natkat]

sniff thanks Em..

to be honest I dont care so much about age to be honest.. the reason I say I arnt so much into date people on my own age is because I find most of them.. to scared and in the closet to could handle me..

the fact that im trans,gay, and everything.. most guys at my age just cant handle it, or even if they are gay or anything then many are hidding in the closet,
and many are just playing cool because of the group.

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`yw I dont dwell on age too much either....its depressing for me. Most younger gay boys I think are still in Narnia XD lol....which is a shame.

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Cis male here, I can only speak for myself but I find ftms really cute, which is saying something because I never generally find "people" cute, it's always individuals that I know personally, but in my experience I've never met an ftm guy I've not found at least cute, if not outright attractive.

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`awww we are cute arent we natkat.... lol XD

[natkat]

`people use to say so.. (specially females has something with the little boy look)

so yeah indeed XD..

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`*pinches your cheeks* arent u adorable! XD

[tonimarie09]

`The first other transperson I met was FTM. While there was nothing between us he was definitely interesting to know. At the time he had just started a relationship and had told the lady he was FTM which did not seem to be a big deal to her as she had gotten to know the person he was before making any judgements. We lost track of eachother as he got more involved in their relationship.

One of the nicest guys I met anywhere was also FTM. We related more as brother/sister and talked about how he should approach a lady he liked. His idea of sending her flowers with a confession of loving her was a bit overboard and might have scared her away. Then again, maybe I am leery of someone saying Love without really getting to know me first. Makes me think they are more in love with being in love then anything to do with me. Then again I am very cautious about the motives of others - call it baggage if you must.

Really, if you show others the kind of person you are and you happen to be caring, considerate and friendly, you are doing the best thing you can already.

Now if only I would take my own advice!

[wolframsheridan]

I always feel a bit shallow that I would only date a biomale (either Cis, genderqueer or MtF). It's like I'm saying, "You have to treat me like a man, and I'll treat you however you like, but I demand that at least one of us has a real -----!"

Why do I have such stupid issues v.v;;

[eppyuk]

`shame your not from hull wolfram would love to take you for a drink your gourges xxx