ARE THERE SUCH THING AS GOOD HEARTED MEN?

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I've been on many dates and met many men and haven't found ONE decent man. Does he exist?

[dylanjskittles]

`There are a ton of men that are decent. you just need to look and go through alot of nasty ones to find the decent ones.

[sp00nss2]

`at least 1 ha ha.

[izeman]

`hi hun, in answer to your question, yes, there are decent n good haerted and loyal men out there, and i hope you are lucky enough to find the right man for you, some clever person once wrote, "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince".

this does not apply only to men hun, all genders, race, creed, have good and bad people, just be patient and careful, you will find mr right. good luck hun.

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`Diva... don't give up!!! They do exist. It may take a while but I'm sure that you will find the man that turns your world upside down. Remember that if you give up looking.. you will never find him. ;)

[reigh]

`There are good hearted men and sadly, they're only few. But it doesn't mean I have to give up looking. There are also changed men that turn out from being bad to good. People changes. The guys I had relationships were good guys, things didn't work out because they are -------- and uncertain to commit on TS/TGs. Which was another issue.

[shygothgirlts]

`In my experiense the answer is pretty much no.
Unless someone can prove to me otherwise. 99% of men just want us as objects.

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`I have to agree, the majority of men that I have meet in the course of my life look at women as a object. But your not alone most of the gay and Bi men I have meet look at gay men the same way.

[shygothgirlts]

`I would love for a knight in shining armor to sweep me off my feet. But the only people that ever happens to, are the ones that are super passable. A girl like me doesnt have a chance... and that's part of the problem Guys want girls who are super sexy and only pre op cause they like the idea of a girl with a thing, me I would like to find someone to fall in love with who would help me get the surgey so I can be legally female and marry him.

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`Hey Shygothgirl,

We all would like the fairy-tale end in are life but that generally doesn't happen. Looking at the photo you have posted you look passable. Believe me I have meet some genetically born women that looked like a dude in drag. Remember a relationship that's going to last starts with looking beyond that outer shell we call our body and knowing the real person that is inside.

I guess unless you are one of the few super beautiful people you going to think that they have it easy. Truth is most of the beautiful people including those with money that I've meet really have screwed up lives.

Just be true to yourself and be the women you know you are. You will find him when you least expect it.

[phellum]

Help you get the surgery? How?

[shygothgirlts]

`Basically if the relationship goes full time LTR and I mean the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and vice versa, I would hope they would help me to finance the surgery. I would never ask anyone to pay for my surgery. If they are unable to help, then it may take a long time before I can afford to be Post-op

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`hi shygothgirlts i just want to say that i hope you do find that nice guy that has the heart to help you with your srs ,

i think its very unfair the system they have over in the states compared to england, as over here, surgery funding is provided by the nhs (national health service) .

good luck in the future and i wish u well .

[phellum]

`I agree... I hope one day that it will be covered by insurance here in the States. This is one reason some transgender women get involved with prostitution - to pay for surgery.

[shygothgirlts]

`I would never be a prostitute, though I'll probably never have enough for the surgery. I don't want to give up or lose hope but what can I do?