Just looking for Friends, Direction & Motivation.

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*****NOTE*****
Looking for friends first, to hang out, have fun, etc.

If there's a spark we MIGHT see where it goes.
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I'm a MtF pre-op Transsexual, I want the surgery but that's on hold due to lack of $$$. I'm a little overweight but I'm working on getting back to a weight I like.

I have no specific likes or dislikes when it come to just friends.. For friends it's all about the personality for me, for the potential to go past just friends, then the picky bits apply.

It may seem a bit picky, but I'm interested in someone that is fit, or that is active & outdoorsy.

The reasoning behind this is I hate doing things alone, and lack the motivation to go out by myself. Alone I'm a partial couch potato, only getting out to grocery shop or tend my small garden.

I want to get out & do more, and loose weight so I can look good & feel better, but I need friend(s) to go do those things with. Walks, camping, hiking, skiing, etc. (I was in scouts and earned my Eagle Scout, so I do enjoy many outdoors activities).

I'm not really into the Dom/sub thing as a ------ thing, but I am more interested in someone that is outgoing and knows what they want, being a dominate friend (future potential partner), willing to make the decisions when I can't help in deciding, or when I dilly dally because I know I should do something but am trying to avoid it.

What would be really nice is to find someone that treats me like a lady, that can help me shape my body through exercise and physical activities to be more feminine. This would do a lot to help my self-esteem, and potentially help me get a job, so I can continue my stagnating transition towards getting the surgeries I so badly want.

Alexandria

[lanacastillo83]

`I can totally understand what you're going through. Not having enough motivation to go out or lose weight. I have been overweight myself and it's tough when you're doing it all alone. If you need a friend to talk to with your life struggles, you may add me in Skype. Having someone to talk to really helps you go through those dreary days in your transition.

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`Hey Alexandria. I am like you. I want to lose weight and not as motivated as I used to be. I saw that you were in the Army. I was in the Marine Corps. I just started back on a good exercise routine and diet. Maybe we can stay in touch and help motivate each other to improve. I have a lot of great exercise routines that you can do at home. I gave up weight lifting because I was getting injured to much. First a shoulder problem then a back problem and about a year ago I almost shot out my knees. My body had healed itself but I will not go back to weight lifting.

[snakeinatrouser]

`Hello! I'm new here too! Although I've been a memeber for quite a while, I've never really given this site a chance.

I hope you spend your time here well!

Much love

Snake