The "chaser" to ACTUAL TRANS PEOPLE ratio...

[memory]

This is highly irritating. I joined the site to meet other trans people and like WHO KNOWS maybe meet others in my area?... Not people who (want to date us because we are a hot thing to them) You can go through the search on this site looking for cool people... but it seems like the majority that comes up is a gazillion guys that just want to have S-- with a trans woman..

That fine.. cool! Everyone loves us! great! But what if we want to meet eachother.. No one besides chasers even goes in the chat room...I check frequently... .-. Where exactly are people going? Or is this site just dying and the chasers remain to pounce on any poor un suspecting trans person that shows up?

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`Please define "chaser".

[memory]

`As in people who have a type of fet--- or something rather that has to do with trans woman in this case. People who will typically go after or "chase" T girls basically because of our nature. Its nearly always about sex, not because we are rad awesome chicks or anything.. Its more a long the lines of "OMG A chick with a ----!!!!! HOT!!!" We get treated as S-- toys with no feelings in the form of mythological creatures..

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`So I don't understand, gg have to deal with the same jerks. They typically just call them "players".

Seems to me like these "chasers" you speak of are pretty typical h---- dudes that just want ---.

I think it's a two way streak. Cause I have met a ton of trans women that only want --- and chase after "straight"/"first timers".

What do we call them? Straight chasers?

Anyway my point is that an all inclusive term would be "player".

"transsexual chaser" seems a little narrow and rudimentary, if at best, for a descriptive term.

[memory]

`Not the same. A "player" is a guy that is basically just a man whore who sleeps around and goes after every woman he sees. a "Trans chaser" goes after trans women BECAUSE they have a fet--- or want the D. Not because we are women. In fact they even become uninterested if they know you're post-op. its totally not the same thing. More valid comparisons to the idea would be a chubby chaser. (someone who only wants large people) or big ----- chaser ( someone who only wants big butts) The word "chaser" refers to one going after another based on either one or multiple traits or characteristics given by an individual and its often frowned upon and not taken as flattery.(it's usually creepy as f*ck) A player just has a hard on constantly.~

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`By your reasoning someone who has a overly s----l interset with a woman with a ----- is a "tranee chaser" well wonder what they call some one who has an overly s----l interest in a dog? A "doggie chaser"? Or hot wax = "candle chaser"? Or scat? "Poopie chaser"? Something doesn't seem right with that rational.

Lulz "chubby chaser"? You see me and my friends use that as a deragotry term to make fun of guys and the fat women they love. So I guess when you call someone a "transsexual chaser" you are making fun of the guy and the tranee?
Point is no one out there labels themselves as a "chubby chaser" which in the sane concept no one out there labels themselves a "tranee chaser".
If activists and rights supporters seek to change their image when it comes to nouns and pronouns, and do not like deragotry terms, they should first be the change they want to see and not use deragotry labels either. Ie "tranee chaser".



Have you ever considered that an aka "tranee chaser" will bang anything? So me thinks that just makes them horn dogs.

On top of that I have noticed that any male whom has somewhat of a good body and looks good, in his early to mid twenties is not really considered a "tranee chaser" by most trans' perspectives. It's only when he is overweight, maybe balding and repulsive. That's when they tend to get labeled as a "tranee chaser". (Maybe not always true but seems like a trend.)

[memory]

`You are not seeing my point here. I could be wrong but you're not trans either so you really have no clue about "other trans' perspectives" do you?
You have no idea how we feel in this matter. To us... ANYONE who wants us because we could possibly have d---... is a chaser. We generally want nothing to do with these guys is the thing. It doesn't matter if they are old and creepy or a guy that is super hot. We don't like it. Trans women in particular... a lot of us find having a d---.. quite a problem.. and if someone is gonna obsess over it, it pushes us away. And furthermore... your context is screwed... a person who likes dogs .. just likes dogs.. they don't have s----l encounters with them id hope.. Hot wax isn't a human being... and neither is the poop....... so like apply what im saying that way is not the same. And the idea that "transsexual chasers" will ---- anything s also irrelevant ... You are missing my point entirely. Point: If you are someone who want us for a part of us that we have severe issues with, we want nothing to do with you. It creeps us out.

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Lulz, you do not have any idea who I am, you have at least alluded to the fact you are mistaken in that area.

BTW I do have perspectives and a solid belief system that has been in motion for a long time.
Long enough to develop the knowledge that I could never fathom speaking as if I was the all inclusive representative for everyone in the trans community. Not sure how you "think" you fill that ticket. That ackshewly made me laugh when you insinuated that.

You're still displaying a flawed thought process though, it's okay you are young and still developing.


Just cause you like ----- doesn't make you a chaser. Also since when did all of the trans community become disgusted by their extra member? Wow that is a fallible statement.


I'm going to go ahead and assume you have heard of non-op trans women. I dunno they seem pretty ok with their genitalia.

Okay so hot wax, dogs, and poop aren't exactly human but it was a metaphorical statement, which I hoped you could have understood. Not sure if I expected a little much in that area. Let me put it in an easier softer way so that you can understand.

Recap:

If a guy likes skinny chicks he isn't a skinny chaser.

If a guy likes brunettes that doesn't make him a brunette chaser.

If a guy likes a woman with big bewbs, that doesn't make him a bewbie chaser.

No, no it doesn't. TBH that just makes a person like what they like.

Me:
I like trucks.
I like dogs.
I like Florida and Georgia.
I like Taco Bell and home cooking.
I like the outdoors.
Oh and by the way I happen to like transsexual women that are non-op and have no plans on getting bottom surgery and I have never had the beautiful women that I date in RL push me further away based off of what I like.

I don't feel in any way that someone of your age and experience, or anyone for that matter besides myself can tell me that because I like these things I am a transsexual chaser.

TBH in RL I don't chase anything, generally the women obsess over me. So I like your ideology in that regard, I think I will start calling those trans women "Anthony Chasers". =]

Keep practicing your belief system though, you'll get it one day.

Cheers kiddo.

[mythicprincess]

`"Chaser" is just the term and thats the definition. We didnt make it up. Youre missing the point of that definition and its definition is kind of segway from the original question....are there only admirers (the pc version of the derogatory term?) on this site or are there other trans that would like to chat/blog about the intracasies (sp?) about being trans? I found the same result in other chat sites,,, lots of chasing, not so much about transitioning itself. Dating is fun, sure...but is it possible to leave the guys on the dance floor and talk with just us girls a little? Guys are welcome to the discussion, but maybe we can back off on the "hitting on" constantly for a moment?

Where has insurance changed recently? Is society more accepting? Does anyone notice the similarities of gg's dating? Where can a girl go out and be safe? What other tribulations are out there for me? Am i the only one that feels these hurts, wants, anf desires? Am i like othet trans? Am i like,,, normal (other than being a trans of course, lol)?

[mythicprincess]

`To expand on my own observation of chasers vs admirers (obsessively?). Perhaps admirers have grown comfortable enough with themselves where "chaser" is derogatory. I like to date men that are comfortable enough to be seen in public with me,,, able to accept the event side glances when out in the public. Any guy or gal that dates me is afraid of being "judged" so needs to be -------- is a big turn off for me. Those guys are just "chasers".

[tkjdragon]

`Chasers...Admirers....if taken to the extreme, can be considered similar to stalkers. If...taken to the extreme. Yes, some are fetishists and perverts and so forth, some are curious some just have no clue what they are looking into. There are some people, male and female, that are curious...interested...and truly mesmerized by the beauty of the human body...be it male/female or both. A place like this gives us a chance to explore those avenues as well as finding a likeness and contact with another...
I can see and understand (to a point) how some folks would "rub ya wrong" here...some would take it like a -----h--k-p-site, but ...unfortunately, in this day, it's to be expected. However, folks like that tend to throw their drama and leave and life goes on.

All this being said, yes...I am a male..."straight/curious" whatever ya wanna call it...doesn't matter to me...I see the beauty in a human...and I appreciate it....bottom line.