Being Transgender an Relationships.

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Everything you say goes for a "normal" relationship.
also, transwomen don't go through more emotional ups and downs than any other woman.
Your post, to me anyway, clearly shows you have no idea about us really.
Another one along the lines of "all transwomen blabla"
As far as depression is concerned, maybe if we are accepted for who and what we are and guys don't just see us as sexdolls the depressions won't be nearly as many.
As it is now, we are left with little or no friends or family during and after our transition, men just want us for "an experience", because they "are bicurious" and/or have seen a ----o movie with a "-------" and they think we are all like that.
I have chatted to many men, in the end it always boils down to what is in my panties, if it works and what i am willing to do with it.
The person that is me is not interesting at all.


Ok first off, you apparently know nothing about what is happening to your brain and body as you transition. To think that dosing yourself with hormones doesn't give you abnormal mood swings is preposterous. I'd cite my dating history, but this being the internet the topic would probably turn and I'd get made fun of. So, look up the info yourself. I've tried so hard to make sure you women knew for a fact that I wasn't interested in your body parts. You're the ones who keep bringing it up, not me.

Keira In the end what it boils down to is that you are ok talking to people h----, but not ok being talked to by someone h----. Don't just put all the blame on the guy. You know you make mistakes just as much as the next person.

Does anyone else see this blatant vanity and selfrighteousness or am I the only one? I'm telling you, this is how the relationship will go, prepare to defend yourself.

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mymindwanders wrote:
Ok first off, you apparently know nothing about what is happening to your brain and body as you transition. To think that dosing yourself with hormones doesn't give you abnormal mood swings is preposterous. I'd cite my dating history, but this being the internet the topic would probably turn and I'd get made fun of. So, look up the info yourself. I've tried so hard to make sure you women knew for a fact that I wasn't interested in your body parts. You're the ones who keep bringing it up, not me.


You seem to know exactly what is happening to us and who speaks to us in what way but you are and live as a guy.
That's pretty funny
No wonder your relationships with trans women don't work out
You obviously know them better than they know themselves.

mymindwanders wrote:
Keira In the end what it boils down to is that you are ok talking to people h----, but not ok being talked to by someone h----. Don't just put all the blame on the guy. You know you make mistakes just as much as the next person.


Implying i talk like that to people makes you look even more like someone who thinks they know what others think and do.
In every conversation it has always been the male that has brought up --- and i have talked to a LOT of them.
Everyone makes mistakes, me too, i never said i didn't make mistakes.

mymindwanders wrote:
Does anyone else see this blatant vanity and selfrighteousness or am I the only one? I'm telling you, this is how the relationship will go, prepare to defend yourself.


I don't think of myself to be very pretty at all, which is vanity right?
I do get told a lot that i am pretty though, should i believe that or what do you think?
Maybe i should have low self esteem so you can walk all over me?
If standing up for yourself is being self righteous, then yes i am.
I am kind of sick of being bullied by patronizing males who think they are doing us a favor by dating us and then trash us when we get sick of them.
It sure looks like you are one of those.

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After hjaving dated aTS girl I wouldn't change back. Online dating is what it is I think your very attractive its the guys who neeed glasses

Mark

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parisstalker wrote: `Having only REALLY discovered the "world" of ts/tg/cd etc recently, despite having always been very open minded -------- and so on (although I consider myself 99% "straight" as it were), I think it's pretty safe to say there is simply not enough done within our education and entertainment to educate people about this area of what is considered different.

I don't deny to my friends that should I meet a ts/tg girl who I find attractive physically and personality wise that I would date them, but even amongst my most liberal of friends it is often met with some flak.

To me, it all comes back down to double standards that society has imposed on men. For example, (warning to those that are easily offended by allusions to specific ------ acts) it's perfectly acceptable to ejaculate in a girls mouth, or penetrate a girl in that 'other hole', but oh no, if YOU put anything anywhere near your own or had semen near your mouth, you are 100% gay, and gay=bad. Both of these statements are obviously total fallacies, but it's how people perceive things.

We've just got to work together to break down the false dichotomy of gender and orientation, and the rest will follow I assure you.





I was gonna read everyone elses comments but this one struck me hard lmao.

Because its SOOO TRUE!!! I would never in a million years consider ever doing anything with my ejaculate besides wiping it on a napkin lmao, and any guys thats ever done anything more with it grosses me the F out.

YET im totally ok and turned on by girls licking their fingers after and would have no problem doing it once I do my bottom surgery . .

Homophobic transgender , lmao , oh man...

[godzillaeyes1]

`Right now, I'm currently single, but there's one lady here that I am interested in. She's taken an awful liking to me, but it's hard to say. She's in her mid to late 30s, she's from Central America. She's got this very brunette colored, curly hair with olive tone skin and huge hazel colored eyes. Very sweet, humble, educated, and hard-working. One problem, she's VERY Religious (I'm quite the opposite). I feel sometimes that I am wasting my time, even though we talk and I have given her chocolate and flowers, and went to her church a few times (she invited me to come). I feel like it won't be possible to make a relationship work with two different people.

[lookin4mygurl]

godzillaeyes1 wrote: `Right now, I'm currently single, but there's one lady here that I am interested in. She's taken an awful liking to me, but it's hard to say. She's in her mid to late 30s, she's from Central America. She's got this very brunette colored, curly hair with olive tone skin and huge hazel colored eyes. Very sweet, humble, educated, and hard-working. One problem, she's VERY Religious (I'm quite the opposite). I feel sometimes that I am wasting my time, even though we talk and I have given her chocolate and flowers, and went to her church a few times (she invited me to come). I feel like it won't be possible to make a relationship work with two different people.



Religion can be a huge deal breaker sometimes...!! I can totally relate!