Daunting

[armitage]

I've been on the site for 3 days and have already encountered a very broad spectrum of people but so far those people seem to always end up being complete and total perverts halfway through any conversation. I really worry about the mindset of some of the fellows on here. I for one am not interested in helping these guys "get off" to some ------ fantasy. I joined this site hoping that this sort of thing would be a bit different but so far I keep encountering the same kinds of guys.

Oh well, C'est la vie.

[(deleted)]

`Welcome to the site, first off!

Unfortunately, that's most of what you will find anywhere, internet or otherwise if you are trans. For whatever reason, the general public seems to be convinced at some level that when FTMs and MTFs transition, they loose their humanity and feelings...Like we can't want a serious, loving relationship like everyone else. It seems to be more common thought process with bio-males...

There are understanding ones out there though! I don't know if many are on the internet, but I know they are out there. I'm not optimistic that I'll find anyone over the internet, but I keep up an account, just in case. Patience is indeed a virtue...and a pain in the ass.

Good luck,
-Aeden

[(deleted)]

ah tough break, just gotta remember not everyone on heres like that, hopefully you'll end up meeting some right decent people who will actually treat you with the respect and admiration you deserve, just think positive and good luck

[(deleted)]

`^ this guy knows where it's at. The stupid pervs on this site ruin it for people legitimately looking.

[armitage]

`Thank you all for the helpful comments. I do really appreciate it. :)

[natkat]

`sadly it like that....

only positive you can think of is as thatbd said; not everyone like that and sure there also people who not only interested in your for there perv minds.

and then it not only MtF but generally many many people who tried this..
bio-girls got these problems as well
for me dating gay guys I also got ALOT of pervs who only want sex, even if they know im ftm..

but well keep up hope, I am sure there someone who will threat you well..

[jackkarl]

`hang in there. there are some really good and respectful people here. hi.

[(deleted)]

`THATS PAR FOR THE COURSE YOU WOULD FIND THE SAME JERK AT ANY NIGHTCLUB. IM KINDA GLAD THOSE TYPES EXIST female and male it gives the site a real world feel in an otherwise isolated pool of virtuality lol