Badkltty, 52

hi everyone. i'm a generally positive person looking for people to talk to.i'm also single, so there is that.if you are intelligent, witty and have something that you are passionate about that defines you, i would be happy to talk to you about it. i might even talk to you about the myriad of things that float around inside my own head.

i have 3 adult children. i am an intelligent but unfocused woman who loves deeply but not easily. i'm pretty down to earth and easy going, but i can be pretty passionate about things at times. in fact, it's hard to pin down one thing about me that is one way all of the time. i have often referred to myself as a walking dichotomy. i enjoy being feminine and looking pretty as much as i enjoy being on the softball field and digging a bad trow out of the dirt at first base. i don't want to be in charge but i like to get my way. i don't smoke or do drugs. i drink, but rarely outside of a social setting. i don't like to be drunk. i love children and animals, and they love me back. i like to cook, but will rarely cook if i'm only feeding myself. my bedroom is a mess and my kitchen is clean. i'm pretty good at procrastinating, but only when i get around to it. i try to keep drama and stress out of my life, but i'm truly at my est when things are at their worst.

just as a fair warning, i like to play rough with my friends. i like people who can take a joke and give it back.

can't wait to hear from you.