Few things you need to know about me
-I am a male, and I live that way most of the time
-I am not interested in reassignment surgery
- I am in a relationship with a woman who knows about this. That comes first.
-It is very unlikely that I will meet you for ---. Especially if you are a male with no background in this, looking to experiment, and especially if you have a partner which you are keeping this secret from. Even if you are not, I am very monogamous. We'll probably be friends.
-I have morals, even though some people don't think people like me ought to have any. I don't like to compromise them.
I don't really believe in gender. While people have a biological assignment for reproduction, the majority of what we consider "gender" is largely a sociological construct. I am pansexual/bisexual, but I am drawn to feminine tendencies in people.
I am in a state of rebellion against society. I am very progressive, and very influenced by feminist philosophy. I see ------ity as a form of empowerment to be enjoyed by all without shame, and never to be taken advantage of. I value independence, and freedom. I respect other peoples opinions. But I believe in what I believe, without apology.
Chabbienoshabby, 46
currently offlineSaskatchewan, CANADA
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About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'09"
Weight
180 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, internet, movies, music, naturism, nudism, photography, reading, shopping, travel, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, steamy, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
bisexual
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
a little gray, dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
dating someone special, off the market, just here for friends
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Clerical / Administrative, Construction / Craftsman, Executive / Management, Sales / Marketing
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with parents
Socially, I am
better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
independent, libertarian, progressive
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fine Dining, Indian, Italian, Omnivore, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, liberal, loner, lover, playa hater, romantic, type a
Individuality
nudist, pirate at heart
Religious Views
Agnostic, Deist
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only, penpal
My Sign
cancer : june 21-july 22, i was born in june
Gender
Male, Not Sure
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Gospel, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Motown, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Rock, Trance
Hair Style
bob cut, shag
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
travel, video games, weather, wine tasting, working out, writing, yoga, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cycling, dancing, gardening, hunting, internet, killing zombies, larp, manga, mime, movies, music, naturism, nudism, photography, reading, running, shopping, sports, surfing, swimming, target practice, television
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight, transgender-mtf
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander, Vulcan
Relationship
committed, couple, dating someone special, divorced, domestic partnership, married, off the market, just here for friends, open relationship, seeing someone, separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - do not want kids, no - maybe with the right person, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college, some high school
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, Less than $25,000, that's private
Do they smoke?
daily, no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker, only when I drink, socially
Do they drink?
socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship, there is a party every night, with a significant other, with an insignificant other, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, ndp - the new democratic party (canada), not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican, socialist, the conservative party (canada), the liberal party (canada)
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Gluten-free Diet, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Raw, Soul Food, Spicy, Sushi, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, conservative, extrovert, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, playa hater, preppy, professional, punk, redneck, romantic, tree hugger, type a
Individuality
mime, nudist, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, tattoos, vampire
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Catholic, Christian, Deist, Hindu, Jewish, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, friends only, penpal
Their Sign
aquarius : jan. 20–feb. 18, aries : march 21–april 19, cancer : june 21–july 22, capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, gemini : may 21-june 20, i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in april, i was born in august, i was born in december, i was born in february, i was born in january, i was born in july, i was born in june, i was born in march, i was born in may, i was born in november, i was born in october, i was born in september, leo : july 23–aug. 22, libra : sept. 23–oct. 22, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, sagittarius : nov. 22–dec. 21, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Military Service
air force, army, coast guard, marines, national guard, navy, reserves, veteran
Pets
Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Ferret, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Iguana, Monkey, Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rat, Rats, Rock, Sehlat, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Targ, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles
Gender
Female, Not Sure, Transgender
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Choir, Christian Rock, Classical, Country, Dance, Death Metal, Folk, Gospel, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Metal, Motown, Opera, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Rap, Rock, Screamo, Techno, Trance
Hair Style
afro, french twist, layered, long hair, mohawk, perm, ponytail, shaved head, straightened, bob cut, bun, cornrows, curly, dreadlocks, emo, faux-hawk, french braid
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