Clockwerkgoblin, 42

Just a guy with different parts. (FtM) My name is Jasper and I am a 30 year old pansexual male who was given the wrong parts at birth. I tend to shy away from the "FtM" label, simply because I'm not "trans"forming into anything different. I'm just a guy who was born under different circumstances than most guys and am making a few changes in my life to better reflect who I am.

I'm pre-op and not yet on hormones. Environment, changes in life and a failure to launch have made previous circumstances not ideal for transitioning. However, I'm now in a good place with supportive people and I'm now living full-time as a man.

I'm a strange bird in a lot of ways. I'm artistic and I believe wholeheartedly in radiant creativity, and unconventional spirituality. I believe nothing is more beautiful than confidence, and the most attractive person out there is someone who is happy to be who they are. I love people who love themselves. Though I know I'm a work in progress, I love myself as well and want to share the love I have with a strong man who is looking for the same.

I'm currently in a STABLE, LOVING, open polyamorous relationship. Why am I seeking outside of it? I'm a submissive person and my partner is also submissive, and is also involved with someone whom they plan to marry. I want to find a gentle dominant male who understands my situation and my interests and is willing to really get to know me before committing to anything. I'm not here for quick flings or "a good time," though I will talk to anyone who sends me a message.

Any questions? Feel free to ask!