Deedeek, 53

Gender Nonconformist seeking women & men I can't be a transwoman or transsexual or even transgender because I am no longer in transition. I have always felt myself to be female and that hasn't changed so my gender is female although my body is male but feminized with estrogen. I've grown comfortable with my sense of gender and how I express it so I don't have gender dysphoria, either - since dysphoria means "bad feelings." I am attractive, funny, easy to be with, -------, and whip smart. I am hoping to find someone similar.

I write (have been slightly published), am slightly employed, and for fun I keep an aquarium full of the smallest, most obscure fish I can find, and go out some nights. I love the outdoors and also reading. I love animals but am allergic to dogs and cats (hence the fish).

A person who doesn't mind taking it slowly and getting to know one another is who I'm hoping to meet. I prefer women but men who overcome my learned-through-experience prejudices will be welcome
Men, I am highly suspicious of you! This is because most guys have treated me like a rollercoaster - ride it a couple of times and then they're through.