Effigy, 45

Pre-op FTM looking for companionship I am a preop transguy and am looking for friends and relationships open to who and what I am. I have been married, divorced, a stepmom, and am at a point in my life where I need friends and romantic partners who are serious and still know how to have fun. I am a goth, have always been a goth, and will always be a goth. I like men and women and am not afraid of having a relationship with a transperson of either stripe. My interests include music, dancing, fashions on the darker side of life, poetry, movies, horseriding, I love being active, canoeing, hiking etc, but am slightly limited by a back injury that bothers me sometimes. At home I occupy myself with sewing and fashion design, and I collect ABJD (If you want to know about that ask, but it is geeky) and I enjoy roleplaying. I also tend to read a lot and am mildly obsessed with the work of Terry Pratchett. I work nights and keep odd hours. I warn as a romantic interest I am rather high maintenance and though I am small I have a very dominant personality. I intend to go through with full treatment and surgery over the next few years, so anyone wanting to know me will have to understand and be supportive through that process.