Femmelove, 51

I'm a stiletto femme who loves anything that creates stimulating conversation and a desire for more. I'm a social justice advocate and passionate about my work in social services. I love to dance in stiletto boots like no one is watching, hike (preferably preferably with a dog in tow), cook, read biographies, people watch at my favourite cafe, crash gallery openings, and share juicy merlots with friends on the porch. I try to find some sweetness in every day that passes, and I can still be thrilled most by the simple things in life. My approach to living is that every experience is worth exploring, an opportunity to learn more about how to live this life with a little more grace. Frida Kahlo encapsulates something akin to that for me: "I drank to drown my pain, but the damned pain learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good behavior."

I'm looking for a man who understands the femme dance and enjoys its complex beauty. You know who you are through kindness and wit, and you possess the kind of confidence that does not masquerade as arrogance. I believe in my femme strengths and long to honour the power of my man.