Helenacari, 40

Just trying to find the right person I'm a freelance camera operator trying to extend my career even further. While that's going really well, my dating life is fairly non-existent right now. Eventually I'd like to have a husband, but that's a very long term goal. Right now, I'm just hoping to find someone I can date and see where things go. Its been a while since I've had a boyfriend, so I'd like to take it slow.

I'm fairly relaxed with what I like to do. Basically, if I like you then I'll pretty much like doing anything with you. While I don't know exactly what I'm looking for in a guy, I know that he should have his own place, job and car. He needs to be an alpha male, as I'm a pretty tough chick myself and I need someone to reel me in sometimes. Also, it would help if he had a deep appreciation for art, as I'm an artist. The perfect man would have goals he wants to achieve, and ways to achieve them. It'd be nice to find someone that I could help with their goals, and they with mine.

Life moves forward whether we want it to or not, so this is me trying to move with it.