Friendly Neighborhood Queer seeks T Women and Men Hey all! Generally speaking, I'm creative and exploratory in work and play. Grounded and fluid in all (or at least most) aspects of my life. Predominantly Non-monogamous and Polyamorous. Queer in identification and orientation, and generally tend toward something of a Tomboy in both, but love and adore femininity and masculinity equally.
Beyond that, I'm 39yrs, 145lbs, born a cis male (non-trans), very athletic, am a switch, equally love top/Dom/Daddy and sub/bottom/service-top roles for starters, as well as many things vanilla, and am studious in my interests and pursuits.
Although my schedule is very busy these days, what I'm looking for here in the ongoing, but occasional time I have, is creating healthy, happy, long lasting and evolving friendships with honest, kind, and self/other aware people. With an atrocious sense of humor of course.
While random passionate dates can be awesome and memorable, I tend toward wanting to build on connections, so there you have it.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
Jayoakland, 53
currently offline
Oakland, CA, USA
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Friendly Neighborhood Queer seeks T Women and Men
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'10"
Weight
140 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
travel, sports, reading, music, movies, internet, dancing, cooking & recipes
Body Type
athletic, slim
Movies
sci-fi, indie, horror, drama, comedy, action
Orientation
bisexual
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
open relationship
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
currently in college, college grad
Profession
Entertainment / Media, Medical / Health Services
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Political Views
progressive, liberal, green party, democrat
Food Related
Sushi, Spicy, Vegetarian, Soul Food, Indian, BRAINS!!!
Personality
lover, punk, professional, liberal, jock, intellectual
Individuality
tattoos, pirate at heart, goatee
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
friends only, fun, dating, conversation
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Male
Music
Chamber, Trance, Techno, Soul, Ska, Reggae, R and B, Alternative Rock, Classical, Dance, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Motown, Pop, Punk, Rap
Hair Style
short hair
Fitness & Sports
cycling, working out, swimming
Health Related
western medicine, meditation, chiropractic, acupuncture
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