Best of Both Worlds I am a very calm, quiet, practical, composed, and level-headed person. You could say that I take one step at a time, after much deliberation. Yet, I very intuitive and emotive. Mostly, I am a very tolerant and patient soul. Albeit, I am a true Taurus.
I am live a basic and uneventful life, and find enjoyment from the simple things (like a true Taurus, I am completely happy in the comfort of my own home). A good movie, watching the stars at night, enjoying a glass of wine in front of the fire place, or an enthusiastic game of spades -- complete with some good-natured taunting, are some ways I like to spend my free time.
I'm currently in a relationship (living with my girlfriend and her two kids who consider me "dad"), trying to see if getting back together after a few years break is going to work "second time around." In the meantime, I am looking to build relationships in my new location -- moved less than a year ago from "Trans Mecca" (California).
The who I am question can't be answered within a box, so I am eager to find people who will take the time we'll need to explore and know each other.
I'm a pre-op FTM who has been living full time as a man since 2007. Actually, I've been unintentionally "passing" my entire adult life. I be on and off testosterone for two years now (just got my insurance through working and will be back on next week!). Honestly, the universe has been confirming this is truly my path. Everyone who knew me prior to my decision wonders what took me so long.
So, if you are sincerely looking to meet a genuinely decent person ... send me a message
Kalmedadi, 54
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Oklahoma City, OK, USA
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Best of Both Worlds
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Friendship Only
Height
5'08"
Weight
160 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, sports, reading, music, movies, cooking & recipes, computers, television, travel, video games
Body Type
athletic
Movies
action, drama, horror, indie, sci-fi
Orientation
transgender-ftm, straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
black
Ethnicity
Mixed Race
Relationship
seeing someone
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
daily
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with pets, with kids, with a significant other
Socially, I am
home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
liberal
Food Related
Omnivore
Personality
lover, intellectual, geek, fun loving, conservative, loner, nerd, professional, romantic, type a
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual, Christian
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only, relationship
My Sign
taurus : april 20-may 20
Military Service
army, national guard, veteran
Pets
Dog, Cat
Gender
Male, Transgender
Music
Hip Hop, Celtic, Chamber, Christian Rock, Classical, Country, Gospel, House, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Folk, Motown, Opera, Pop, R and B, Rock, Techno, Dance
Hair Style
short hair
Fitness & Sports
bowling, pilates, soccer (U.S.), swimming, walking, weightlifting, basketball, baseball
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My Friends
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My Groups(7)
FTM Pre-op
1088 membersA group for those who are in the process of transitioning from female to male but have not yet undergone any medical or surgical procedures.
Drag King
425 membersA group for those who perform as a male character, often with exaggerated masculine traits.
Transgender
8313 membersA group for those whose gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth.
On Hormone Treatment
2125 membersA group for those who are taking hormone treatments to transition from one gender to another.
FTM Pre-Transition
625 membersA group for those who are in the process of transitioning from female to male.
FTM Transitioning
878 membersA group for those who are transitioning from female to male.
Transman
1184 membersA group for those who identify as male and were assigned female at birth.
Transgender Dating Sites
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- Androgynous Dating
- TGirl Relationship
- Date a Crossdresser
- Meet Local Crossdressers
- Crossdressing
- Pre Op Dating
- Post Op Dating
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Trans Shopping Resources
Transgender Blog Sites
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