Lizbethami, 51

Pre-op TS ISO of something fun I am a 30-something transwoman, and have been FT since January 2008. I have two wonderful children, a stable, professional (geeky) job, and very little social life, largely due to work and kids. I enjoy hiking. I read a lot, particularly sci-fi, thriller, and mystery novels.

My idea of fun could be... Hanging out, enjoying good food, and good company (need not be expensive). A nice quiet evening with friends or family. Or dancing. Or a loud rambunctious evening with board games.

I am just looking for an intelligent, kind gentleman to have fun with. I find intelligence a turn on, as well as the ability to play board games, argue whether the music of the 80s was better than the 90s, and all over wine or mochas. By contrast, shallowness and smoking are traits that are major turn offs. So don't smoke.

Bottomline: I have kids, so I have drama. I would like to find someone who was a relief from the kids (no drama) who I can actually carry adult conversation with (like who was your favorite character in "Breakfast Club" and whether you like them more than you favorite character from "Ferris Bueller's Day Off").

Oh, and a sense of humor and touch of sarcasm would be nice too. =)