"Crazy old lady with lots of cats"!
Seriously, I made the TS change in the late 1980's and have lived and worked as a woman for twenty years. If you are looking for a glamor girl or a man in a dress, move on. I am a woman.
Description: low key, kind of shy, young looking for my age and just a little -----. As Jan Morris put it, "Not a butterfly but certainly a presentable moth." I enjoy concerts, plays, movies, travel, exploring new restaurants and new cuisines.
Down to earth and pragmatic most of the time but a little ditzy now and then. There is more denim in my closet than silk or sequins.
Blessed or cursed with a strange sense of humor (you decide!)
After twenty years I have moved on from the gender community - but it was a tremendous aid when in transition and am willing to offer what help I can to those coming along behind. Except for a very few close, long term, friends there are few transgender people in my life.
If you are looking for a pen-pal, that is okay too. For anything more than that please be more or less the same age (early 60s).
Mssilver, 2025
currently offline
Portland, OR, USA
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Lonely in Portland
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'10"
Weight
180 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
travel, television, reading, photography, movies, internet, cycling, cooking & recipes, computers
Body Type
a few extra pounds, overweight, thick
Movies
romantic comedy, sci-fi, romance, indie, action, comedy, drama
Orientation
bisexual, lesbian, asexual, straight
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
domestic partnership, off the market, just here for friends, open relationship
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
some college
Profession
Other, Technical / Science / Engineering
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with a significant other, with pets
Socially, I am
side kick, shy at first, but warm up quickly, a couch potato, better in small groups, home body, loner
Political Views
democrat, green party, liberal, progressive
Food Related
Carnivore, Japanese, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Omnivore, Raw Food, Sushi, Italian, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Indian
Personality
geek, tree hugger, total slacker, romantic, playa hater, nerd, liberal, introvert
Religious Views
Agnostic, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan
Miscellaneous
hard of hearing
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, mr. right, penpal, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
My Sign
aries : march 21-april 19
Military Service
navy, veteran, air force
Pets
Cats
Gender
Female, Transgender
Fitness & Sports
cycling
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, cycling, internet, movies, music, photography, reading, television, travel, wine tasting, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, thick
Movies
action, comedy, drama, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, bisexual, celibate, straight
Eye Color
blue, brown, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, bald, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
Caucasian, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other
Relationship
divorced, off the market, just here for friends, open relationship, single - never married
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house
Their Education Level
college grad, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Technical / Science / Engineering
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, with an insignificant other, with pets
Socially, they are
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick
Political Views
progressive, democrat, green party, independent, liberal
Food Related
Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Omnivore, Raw, Vegetarian, Carnivore
Personality
activist, extrovert, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, playa hater, professional, romantic, total slacker, tree hugger
Individuality
beard, comb over, goatee, nudist, psychic, shaved head, stache, undetectable toupee
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Jewish, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, mr. right, penpal, relationship, romance, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Military Service
air force, army, coast guard, marines, national guard, navy, reserves, veteran
Pets
Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Fish, Small Furry Creature, Targ, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles
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