Sabrinatggirl, 53

Transwoman in need of meaningful connections identify as a transwoman. My story may be becoming more and more similar to several other transgirls. I first cross dressed when I was 10. When I was in my 20s and 30s most of my transformation had been centered around exploring b d s m and s----l interests in the female role. I am learning to understand and embrace the female inside me, and I like that I am somewhere between both genders. I don't really like people calling me a cross dresser as being trans-gender to me starts and ends with the mind. Dressing feminine and exuding my femininity is actually very important to me, but it isn't everything to me.

Today I'm more focused on improving my look, the application of makeup, and making friendships...and going out to party, and just doing girlie things. I tend to gravitate to other transwomen, couples, and females who admire and adore us. I also do like befriending good looking gentlemen, although I do not wish to be treated like a novelty or a whore.

You will find that I am very easy to talk with, and I'm very grounded and not judgmental the least bit. I have been known to bring out the best in people and they feel really special when around me. I also have a very sexy feminine body and a very feminine voice to match my appearance.

My Ideal Person: You should be somewhat knowledgeable of the transgender spectrum and understand that we cannot be lumped all together as all the same. And understand the difference between the S-- we were born with may not be the same as the target gender that we identify with. Confused already? Don't worry too much, most of us are and sometimes takes half a lifetime just to understand. I know it has been like that for me.

Please have impeccable hygiene, regardless of your gender. If there is one thing I may be somewhat OCD about is hygiene. Your teeth, hair, skin, scent, and body hair all should be well maintained.