Singblue, 53

Androgynous Woman Does Fit into the Boxes I've done a lot in life - welding, bodybuilding, travelling, even a go-go-dancer in my Well Spent Youth. I've been very tomboyish as a kid and didn't actually become very femme until I was adopted by drag queens in Seattle (thanks, girls!). It was a fun time but I find myself heading back into the more androgynous look again - Converse shoes and tailored suits are my preferred look, tho I can femme-up when I want to in corsets from time to time. I have had casual relationships with women but I prefer men, although I find it nearly impossible to find what would make me happy relationship-wise.

I admit I'm not really clued up on the TG "scene" so I don't know all the terms, don't know the politically correct stuff to say, and I don't rant about TG rights or struggles. I just live my life, paint, write, raise my son and try to get through the day as I have a chronic illness which makes mobility a bit difficult for me.

I'm attracted to post-op FTM so I wouldn't write that off but if I wanted to ask for the moon I'd say an androgynous M, possibly bi. However, knowing how difficult it is just to find someone genuine who isn't just looking for "fun" or "experiences" I'm not going to be too judgmental. But that's a big clue right there - if your profile says anything about "fun", "experience" or "explore" I'm probably not going to respond - I'm not anyone's experiment.

At the end of the day life is short, so one must suck the marrow out of life!