Steelerfan81, 44

I'm a FTM looking my girl. I have never been with a pre-op t-girl but could be willing to try. 75% of my life I live in the closet at this point, I just moved to a new city and kind of starting life over. I transitioned on the job as a union carpenter, but now I work in mental health and substance abuse. I dealt with a good bit of hell while transitioning on the job and weeded out a good bit of friends who couldn't deal with me transitioning. Today I do not need my patients or co workers to know that I am a FTM along with some others. I pass 99% of the time as a straight male and like to keep it that way if that's what people think. I have a true passion for children and need them in my life in someway or another. I have worked very hard to get to where I am today in life, and continue to follow my dreams to where I see myself in the next 5 years. I am looking for a woman who is both book smart and has a good bit of common sense, she can handle going out with a group of friends or stay in for the night. I don't do the bar/club thing very often at all(2-4 times a year)and when I do there's a reason besides drinking. If you are a heavy drinker or do ANY drug you can stop reading NOW, it wont happen with me. I looking for someone with a good heart but not always soft. I do need a swift kick in the --- sometimes, you need to be able to hold your own. I love to play softball and I greatly enjoy playing on the same team as my partner...just an added bonus! If you are still reading this rant and you think we would get along hit me up and lets talk and see what happends.