Trevorw3, 43

i lean a little towards the old school side of things... i believe in calling if you are gonna be late and following through when you say you are gonna do something... i love music, concerts, and working on restoring my 69 beetle... i prefer a slightly rowdy pub to a dance club and meat and potatoes over some fancy dish anyday... i am here looking for community... folks that i can become friends with that will actually put effort into the friendship ... i am not closed to dating that just isn't my main purpose for being here... i work nights so i have weird hours but am online all the time... live with my two cats... i have been on testosterone for a year now, bind daily, and pack every now and again... i am researching and saving for top surgery and am hoping to reach that goal within the next 3ish years... i plan on keeping all of my original plumbing ... i very much ID as male but have no set standard as to what that means... sometimes i cry, sometimes i'm the tough guy that carries heavy things for you... sometimes i want somebody's arms around me making me feel safe and sometimes i like the reverse of that... i strive for balance in all aspects of who i am and my world around me... look forward to meeting some people...