Valiant, 49

I am past the plumbing issues and think in terms of a TS's femininity. I love the true feminine spirit. We live in a world of women who crave to be more like men. Who among the women of today delight in being extremely feminine? I also find solace with the pre-op transsexual because she used to be a male and has a far better understanding of what it means to be male than most GG's ever will. I've been chronically misunderstood by GG's enough to appreciate the viewpoint of the TS. I will fully support any decision that a girlfriend of mine may make about her body as those decisions are certainly not mine to make.

As for what I am looking for, I want to find a great girl, take her out to dinner or a movie. Offer her flowers. Talk to her about whatever, listen to her words. Look into and get lost in her eyes. I want to be able to relax around her and just enjoy being with her. I want to hold hands, kiss her good-night and ask for a second date. Cliche? I guess. Maybe beer and pizza would be good too.

As for the obligatory informational about me, I am 32 and work in the IT field in the Boston / Springfield area. I am tall (6'+) and in good / great shape. I have a home, 2 dogs (a lab and a beagle) and am a geek at heart. I love music, photography, working on my house (I am a master of all things home improvement!), movies and independent films. I am obviously an avid internet and computer user and love technology and geeky toys. I don't really like to talk about myself (despite how this ad sounds!) but I love to be engrossed in conversation with others. I am a fan of debate, even heated debates, however inside, I really care about how people perceive me. I am honest to a fault, but get past that and like my friends, you'll realize that I will never bs you.

I would love the chance to get to know more about you, I hope that you are willing to let me.