Wrestler1, 45

NO MAN SHOPPERS First of all, if you've got ----ty pictures on your profile, don't message me. There's nothing attractive about someone putting themselves out there like that to people you don't even know. Second, if you're on here talking to a bunch of guys, PLEASE don't try talking to me. I'm looking for someone I can take serious, not a man shopper. I want something serious eventually, but not right off the bat. I want to find someone I can talk to and spend time with, but not TOO much time with, but enough to establish a connection. I'm not going to compete for anyone's attention or affection. If you're one of those people that's on here a lot I'm probably not going to take you serious. I've been on this site long enough to know how it works. Dating sites are pretty much meat markets. It seems to be about how many people and options you can have, and I think it goes to a lot of peoples heads when they get on here. It should be about quality, not quantity. I've played the game, and I've had the game played on me before to know that you can't really take anyone serious anymore, especially on sites like these. All you can really do is cross your fingers and hope for the best. I can honestly say that in the 3 years I've been on and off this site, I've met some of the most sketchy, two-faced fake people in my entire life. You would think people getting on here would keep it real and stick to what they say they really want. But most don't. I think people are better at telling you what you want to hear rather then what they really want. It makes me laugh when I get emails from people telling me how bitter and angry I sound when they read my profile. All I can say is I am the way I am for a reason. When you've been burnt and played so many times, it takes a toll on you. I have a no-bullsh*twall built up, and if people don't like it then oh well=)